WoW 140: On false empowerment

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Words of Wisdom 140: On False Empowerment

In this episode, Josh explores the concept of false empowerment and its potential pitfalls. Reflecting on experiences of pain, trauma, and rejection, he discusses how the ego can drive change in destructive ways. Josh emphasizes the dangers of weaponizing boundaries and living from a place of resentment, explaining the importance of surrendering to God for true, healthy transformation. He includes teachings from Jesus in Matthew 7 and insights from Richard Rohr to underline the value of humility, letting go, and unlearning. The episode concludes with reflective questions to guide prayers and journaling on ways to avoid false empowerment and genuinely depend on God.

00:00 Introduction to False Empowerment

00:11 The Dangers of False Empowerment

00:29 The Ego's Role in False Empowerment

00:52 Weaponizing Boundaries and Seeking Justice

01:16 The Consequences of False Empowerment

01:21 Spiritual Teachings on Surrender

01:52 Practical Steps to True Empowerment

02:31 Biblical Wisdom on Judgment

03:30 Reflections and Questions

04:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT

• As a Psychoherapist Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles.

•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com.

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Links

Richard Rohr, ​Breathing Underwater: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps​

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