Beyond Convenience: Making Love Sacred — On Core Values, Commitment, Radical Honesty & Ceremonial Work as a Couple

Modern Couples. love. purpose. growth.

In this episode, I sit down with a role model Modern & Entrepreneurial Couple — Anna and Kaspar — and I have to say: their story deeply moved me.

To witness how they live Love as Art, Family as Ceremony, and Community as Home felt both grounding and inspiring. They embody so much of what I believe modern couples can aspire to: a love that is intentional, sacred, and alive.

What touched me most is how they balance it all — a healthy biohacker lifestyle, partnership, parenting, and growing businesses. Not perfectly, but consciously. They show that challenges can be invitations into deeper intimacy, and that “messy” moments are not failures, but doorways into growth.

I am passionate to share this conversation with you, because I believe their way of holding love as sacred is a beacon for all of us navigating modern relationships.

We dive into:

• Why true love requires aligning on deeper values, not just chemistry

• How radical honesty and nervous system awareness transform conflict into connection

• The role of music, ceremony, and community in weaving their love story

• Why making conscious sacrifices actually strengthens you as a couple

Anna and Kaspar reminded me that love was never meant to be easy — it was meant to be sacred, alive, and worth showing up for every single day.

About Anna & Kaspar

Kaspar van der Meulen is beststelling author, breathwork specialist and public speaker. Find out more about his work, here: https://breathworkmasterclass.com/

Anna Catharin Heil

Anna is serial entrepreneur, public speaker, musician, ceremonialist, birth doula and biohacker.

Find out more about her work here https://annaheil.com

Together as a couple they are loving parents and hold psychedelic's circles and events in the Netherlands

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