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#196: How to Communicate Emotional Needs Before Resentment Takes Over
Manage episode 441009728 series 2926563
What if the toughest conversations in your relationship aren’t the ones you’re having—but the ones you’re avoiding?
Resentment doesn’t build from the big arguments. It grows in the silence, in the moments when you keep your needs hidden, hoping your partner will just know. But here’s the reality: they won’t. And that unspoken tension? It will eat away at the love and trust you’ve built over time.
Here in the Love Shack we help people like you who are at a crossroads in their relationships—feeling stuck, emotionally drained, and unsure whether to stay or go. Together with my husband Tom and our daughter Brooke, we’re here to help you bridge the gap and rebuild the connection you once had.
In this episode, we dive into a crucial question: Why do we let our needs go unspoken, and how can we start voicing them before it’s too late?
You’ll hear real-life stories of couples who let their unspoken needs drive them apart, only to find that the key to healing was simpler than they thought: clear, vulnerable conversations. We’ll walk you through how to identify those hidden needs, share them in a way that strengthens your bond, and avoid the resentment that creeps in when they go unmet.
Curious about how to stop resentment in its tracks? Tune in now.
Timestamps:
- 02:22 The Movie Analogy: Understanding Personal Narratives
- 04:23 The Importance of Clear Communication
- 05:11 Societal Rules and Miscommunication
- 07:04 The Consequences of Unexpressed Needs
- 10:02 Understanding and Expressing Your Needs
- 21:46 Real-Life Example: Rich and Janet's Story
- 24:46 Teaching Your Partner How to Love You
- 27:14 Understanding Mutual Needs in Relationships
- 27:57 Personal Examples of Miscommunication
- 28:52 The Importance of Asking and Listening
- 30:33 Common Barriers to Effective Communication
- 32:36 Creating an Emotionally Safe Environment
- 34:24 Setting the Stage for Productive Conversations
- 38:15 Focusing on Positive Communication
- 46:45 Practical Scripts for Common Relationship Needs
- 49:06 Building Self-Worth and Vulnerability
Ready to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.
206 ตอน
Manage episode 441009728 series 2926563
What if the toughest conversations in your relationship aren’t the ones you’re having—but the ones you’re avoiding?
Resentment doesn’t build from the big arguments. It grows in the silence, in the moments when you keep your needs hidden, hoping your partner will just know. But here’s the reality: they won’t. And that unspoken tension? It will eat away at the love and trust you’ve built over time.
Here in the Love Shack we help people like you who are at a crossroads in their relationships—feeling stuck, emotionally drained, and unsure whether to stay or go. Together with my husband Tom and our daughter Brooke, we’re here to help you bridge the gap and rebuild the connection you once had.
In this episode, we dive into a crucial question: Why do we let our needs go unspoken, and how can we start voicing them before it’s too late?
You’ll hear real-life stories of couples who let their unspoken needs drive them apart, only to find that the key to healing was simpler than they thought: clear, vulnerable conversations. We’ll walk you through how to identify those hidden needs, share them in a way that strengthens your bond, and avoid the resentment that creeps in when they go unmet.
Curious about how to stop resentment in its tracks? Tune in now.
Timestamps:
- 02:22 The Movie Analogy: Understanding Personal Narratives
- 04:23 The Importance of Clear Communication
- 05:11 Societal Rules and Miscommunication
- 07:04 The Consequences of Unexpressed Needs
- 10:02 Understanding and Expressing Your Needs
- 21:46 Real-Life Example: Rich and Janet's Story
- 24:46 Teaching Your Partner How to Love You
- 27:14 Understanding Mutual Needs in Relationships
- 27:57 Personal Examples of Miscommunication
- 28:52 The Importance of Asking and Listening
- 30:33 Common Barriers to Effective Communication
- 32:36 Creating an Emotionally Safe Environment
- 34:24 Setting the Stage for Productive Conversations
- 38:15 Focusing on Positive Communication
- 46:45 Practical Scripts for Common Relationship Needs
- 49:06 Building Self-Worth and Vulnerability
Ready to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.
206 ตอน
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