Fat Sex by Rebecca Jane Weinstein with Lala

Fat Girl Book Club

TRIGGER WARNING: Event dieting, weight gain, sexual trauma, sex and graphic sexual acts, exercise
I cannot believe we have reached episode 80! After almost three years, a plethora of guests and experiences, and tons of books, we are at the end. Well, not the end end, just the end for now. I don't know why I am going on and on about this because I do hope to come back in the new year with a new look and possibly a new format, but for now I just want all of you to know how much it means to me that you listened to and (hopefully) enjoyed this show. You guys are the best!
My last guest is going to knock your socks off so get ready for a really great discussion all around being fat and having sex. I will admit I'm pretty sexually-inhibited and so I had a hard time getting out what I wanted to say when I was talking to Lala but that did not stop Lala from digging in and giving some great information and really relevant tips. We talked about a book called (appropriately) Fat Sex so we had a lot of material to work with. Here are some of the topics we covered:

• Lala's sex and body positive journey
• A discussion of the male gaze and sexuality
• How Lala became a sexual educator
• All about Lala's podcast and IG account
• The stories in the book and how Lala related to them
• Mindful sex.
• Self-esteem and confidence as an attractor
• Do men like women in larger bodies?
• How can women get over body image hang ups in the bedroom?
• Porn - fat porn, regular porn, everything porn
• Is fatness a fetish?
• The components of mind blowing sex
• Women and orgasming
• Sexual communication
• How can we make adjustments to sex when dealing with chronic illness or disability?
• Dating sites and dating app tips

Keep Reading Everyone!

Lala's Links

Lala's website

Lala's Instagram

Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast

Fat Girl Book Club Podcast Links

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Fat Girl Book Club Email: [e-mail]

Plus Size Lingerie

Torrid

Shien

Amazon

Fredericks of Hollywood

Love Honey

Episode Links

Sex with Emily Podcast

Sex with Emily Instagram

Lala's article about positions for larger bodies

Dipsea

Lala's Book Recommendations

Your Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor

Pussy: A reclamation by Regina Thomashauer

Girl Boner by August McLaughlin

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski