Ep #128 Are You An Avoider, Looper, Surfer, or Sailor?

Dear Franny

In this episode, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of navigating life’s transitions, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Ever wonder why you’re stuck in the same dating patterns or can’t quite connect the way you want? Francesca introduces four relatable dating archetypes—Avoider, Looper, Surfer, and Sailor—designed to help you figure out your dating style and uncover the barriers on your path to finding real love. With her signature mix of insight and warmth, she shares tips on building self-awareness, practicing self-compassion, and setting dating goals that actually work.

Apply to be coached by Franny for an upcoming episode HERE.

Timestamps:

00:00 Navigating Change and Transition

01:48 Understanding Dating Archetypes

03:17 Exploring the Four Dating Archetypes

19:05 Assignments for Each Archetype

22:33 The Impact of Casual Dating

28:12 Upcoming Coaching Sessions

Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.

Work with Franny:

https://linktr.ee/dearfranny

Connect on social media:

@dearfranny on Instagram

@dearfrannypodcast on Instagram

Credits:

Edited and produced by Bex Carlos

Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta

Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi