197 Donna and Sara

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Today we’re back in the spirituality series and we are taking a look at cults and high-demand groups. My guests have both been impacted by cults and they have a theory that adopted people may be more susceptible to these types of groups. Donna and Sara have extensively researched cults since they got out and have a ton of knowledge to share with us. They both tell their personal stories of how they inadvertently found themselves in high-demand groups, how they got out, and what adopted people specifically need to know about cults.

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Show Notes Recommended Resources

• Sara Easterly’s previous appearance on Adoptees On E143 and Donna’s E79
• A Little Bit Culty Podcast
• The Vow: NXIVM Documentary on HBO
• Searching for Mom: A Memoir by Sara Easterly
• Terror, Love and Brainwashing: Attachment in Cults and Totalitarian Systems, by Alexandra Stein

More reading, research, and resources on the topic:

• #iGotOut www.igotout.org | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook
• ICSA: International Cultic Studies Association
• Traumatic Narcissism and Recovery: Leaving the Prison of Shame and Fear by Daniel Shaw
• Terror, Love and Brainwashing: Attachment in Cults and Totalitarian Systems by Alexandra Stein
• BITE Model of Authoritarian Control by Steven Hassan
• Steven Hassan - What is a Cult? YouTube video with a whiteboard animation explaining the BITE Model
• Take Back Your Life: Recovering from Cults and Abusive Relationships by Jana Lalich, Madeleine Tobias
• The Gift of Fear : Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin DeBecker
• Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover
• Sunderland, Paul “Relinquishment and Adoption: Understanding the Impact of and Early Psychological Wound” presentation for iCAAD London 2019, August 12, 2019. (His reference about religiosity/fundamentalism as something commonly seen in adoptees with developmental trauma comes in around 45 minutes in)
• Podcast episode Roys Report “What Makes a Church a Cult” with guest Steven Hassan

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