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The Only Obstacle To Building Confidence
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Welcome to today's episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy! Are you ready to discover the one obstacle standing between you and extraordinary confidence? It might feel like there's a mountain of things in your way, but today, we're breaking it down to just one. Once you understand this obstacle, you'll see how to overcome it and create the confidence you've always wanted.
In this episode, Dr. Aziz explores the root of what's truly holding you back—your own perception of what's possible for you. He'll help you challenge the beliefs and feelings that make confidence seem out of reach, and guide you towards taking the actions that will transform your life. Plus, learn more about the upcoming virtual event, End Social Anxiety Now, where you can immerse yourself in powerful strategies to accelerate your confidence journey.
If you're ready to break free from discouragement and build the bold, confident life you deserve, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in and uncover what’s really possible for you!
Visit DrAziz.com to learn more and register for the virtual event.
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I’m excited to share something that might surprise you: there’s only one obstacle standing in the way of you building an extraordinary level of confidence. That’s right, just one. While it might seem like there are countless reasons preventing you from feeling confident, the truth is, they all boil down to this one key thing. Stick with me, and by the end of this post, you’ll feel energized and empowered, ready to create the confidence you’ve always wanted.
The Root of Your Confidence Struggles
"Do you feel full, freely confident in every aspect of your life?" I’m talking about work, relationships, social situations, and dating. If your answer is anything less than "hell yes," it’s time to ask why. Often, when we ask ourselves this question, we don’t get a clear answer in words. Instead, it’s more of a feeling—a heavy, discouraged, or hopeless feeling. In psychology, this is known as learned helplessness. It’s the belief that no matter what you do, nothing will change, so you might as well give up. This hopelessness doesn’t have to be extreme to hold you back. Even a small amount can zap your energy, prevent you from taking action, and make every step toward confidence feel like an uphill battle.
The Real Obstacle: Your Perception of What's Possible
The only thing truly blocking your confidence is your perception of what’s possible for you. If you believe that building confidence is impossible, or that it will take too long, you’ll inevitably undermine your efforts. Every setback will feel like proof that you’re incapable, and every rejection will reinforce the idea that you’re just not good enough. But here’s the truth: the issue isn’t your appearance, your social skills, your upbringing, or your personality. The real problem is your belief that those things define what’s possible for you. As long as you hold onto that limiting belief, you’ll be stuck in a cycle of inaction and discouragement.
Shifting Your Perspective to Unlock Your Confidence
To break free from learned helplessness, you must change your perception. Start by asking yourself: Do I believe that it’s possible for me to create an extraordinary level of confidence? Not just in theory, but for you. This isn’t about whether others can do it—can you?If your honest answer is no, it’s time to challenge that belief. There’s someone out there with your exact challenges who has achieved what you desire. Someone with your height, your upbringing, your experience level, or whatever other limitation you think is holding you back. So why not you? The secret to building confidence is simple: take action, even if it’s uncomfortable. Confidence isn’t something that appears out of thin air—it’s built through doing. Lean into those small, uncomfortable actions. Whether it’s saying hi to a stranger, sharing your thoughts in a meeting, or putting yourself out there in any way, every step you take builds the muscle of confidence.
Reclaim Your Power Today
"Do you really want to change your perception of yourself?" This is a crucial question because holding onto your limiting beliefs comes with hidden benefits. It might allow you to avoid rejection, escape discomfort, or protect yourself from potential failure. But in reality, those are just excuses that keep you stuck. You have the power to choose a different perspective. Reclaim your belief in yourself and be willing to take the necessary actions, even if they’re challenging. Confidence is possible for you, and you can create it—one step at a time.
Take Action Now
Think about an area in your life where you feel discouraged or hopeless. Bring your attention to that feeling, and start questioning it. Do I want something different here? What benefits am I getting from keeping things as they are? Once you identify these patterns, you can begin to challenge them. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are, and to know, on a deep level, that you’re truly awesome.
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Manage episode 443222478 series 2486526
Welcome to today's episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy! Are you ready to discover the one obstacle standing between you and extraordinary confidence? It might feel like there's a mountain of things in your way, but today, we're breaking it down to just one. Once you understand this obstacle, you'll see how to overcome it and create the confidence you've always wanted.
In this episode, Dr. Aziz explores the root of what's truly holding you back—your own perception of what's possible for you. He'll help you challenge the beliefs and feelings that make confidence seem out of reach, and guide you towards taking the actions that will transform your life. Plus, learn more about the upcoming virtual event, End Social Anxiety Now, where you can immerse yourself in powerful strategies to accelerate your confidence journey.
If you're ready to break free from discouragement and build the bold, confident life you deserve, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in and uncover what’s really possible for you!
Visit DrAziz.com to learn more and register for the virtual event.
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I’m excited to share something that might surprise you: there’s only one obstacle standing in the way of you building an extraordinary level of confidence. That’s right, just one. While it might seem like there are countless reasons preventing you from feeling confident, the truth is, they all boil down to this one key thing. Stick with me, and by the end of this post, you’ll feel energized and empowered, ready to create the confidence you’ve always wanted.
The Root of Your Confidence Struggles
"Do you feel full, freely confident in every aspect of your life?" I’m talking about work, relationships, social situations, and dating. If your answer is anything less than "hell yes," it’s time to ask why. Often, when we ask ourselves this question, we don’t get a clear answer in words. Instead, it’s more of a feeling—a heavy, discouraged, or hopeless feeling. In psychology, this is known as learned helplessness. It’s the belief that no matter what you do, nothing will change, so you might as well give up. This hopelessness doesn’t have to be extreme to hold you back. Even a small amount can zap your energy, prevent you from taking action, and make every step toward confidence feel like an uphill battle.
The Real Obstacle: Your Perception of What's Possible
The only thing truly blocking your confidence is your perception of what’s possible for you. If you believe that building confidence is impossible, or that it will take too long, you’ll inevitably undermine your efforts. Every setback will feel like proof that you’re incapable, and every rejection will reinforce the idea that you’re just not good enough. But here’s the truth: the issue isn’t your appearance, your social skills, your upbringing, or your personality. The real problem is your belief that those things define what’s possible for you. As long as you hold onto that limiting belief, you’ll be stuck in a cycle of inaction and discouragement.
Shifting Your Perspective to Unlock Your Confidence
To break free from learned helplessness, you must change your perception. Start by asking yourself: Do I believe that it’s possible for me to create an extraordinary level of confidence? Not just in theory, but for you. This isn’t about whether others can do it—can you?If your honest answer is no, it’s time to challenge that belief. There’s someone out there with your exact challenges who has achieved what you desire. Someone with your height, your upbringing, your experience level, or whatever other limitation you think is holding you back. So why not you? The secret to building confidence is simple: take action, even if it’s uncomfortable. Confidence isn’t something that appears out of thin air—it’s built through doing. Lean into those small, uncomfortable actions. Whether it’s saying hi to a stranger, sharing your thoughts in a meeting, or putting yourself out there in any way, every step you take builds the muscle of confidence.
Reclaim Your Power Today
"Do you really want to change your perception of yourself?" This is a crucial question because holding onto your limiting beliefs comes with hidden benefits. It might allow you to avoid rejection, escape discomfort, or protect yourself from potential failure. But in reality, those are just excuses that keep you stuck. You have the power to choose a different perspective. Reclaim your belief in yourself and be willing to take the necessary actions, even if they’re challenging. Confidence is possible for you, and you can create it—one step at a time.
Take Action Now
Think about an area in your life where you feel discouraged or hopeless. Bring your attention to that feeling, and start questioning it. Do I want something different here? What benefits am I getting from keeping things as they are? Once you identify these patterns, you can begin to challenge them. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Until we speak again, may you have the courage to be who you are, and to know, on a deep level, that you’re truly awesome.
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