Why Do I Stay In Toxic Relationships?! Am I The Problem?!

Why Am I Like This?!

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of toxic relationships, wondering how you got there and how to break free? Today, I'm joined by Laura Wood, a trauma therapist, and Michaela Beaver, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, as we navigate the complexities of emotional entanglements and the childhood roots that often lead us there. This episode promises to equip you with the understanding and tools to identify harmful patterns, establish boundaries, and cultivate healthier connections.
Together, we address the hard truths about personal accountability and the impact of past traumas on our adult relationships. Our candid conversation uncovers the myths that perpetuate unhealthy dynamics, like the belief that we can avoid conflict by being perfect. We emphasize the necessity of setting boundaries, not as a means to distance ourselves, but as a vital step towards nurturing safety and open communication in our interactions. Laura and Michaela share insights on how acknowledging and staying grounded in the present can be your best defense against the unintentional reenactment of past traumas.
Wrapping up this powerful session, we delve into the significance of personal accountability and balancing our attachment needs within relationships. We examine how emotional reliance on partners can create shaky foundations and the potential for toxicity. Through our discussion, listeners will learn about the importance of understanding the cries for connection and the self-protective mechanisms that emerge when these are neglected. Join us on this journey of self-reflection and growth as we explore strategies for fostering genuine intimacy and emotional resilience.

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This show is sponsored by:
Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
www.benavieri.com

Active Healing Psychiatric Services
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1. Understanding Toxic Relationships and Childhood Influence (00:00:00)

2. Setting Boundaries and Acknowledging Trauma (00:12:57)

3. Setting Boundaries and Addressing Toxicity (00:19:03)

4. Accountability in Relationships and Attachment Needs (00:25:47)