S3 Ep4 Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

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Do you ever substitute drama for fun?

Girls wanna have fun? Katherine sure wants to have fun…finally! Krista says Katherine is done with the drama mama…

Coming from Krista, that’s pretty bold! Throw in a period and who’s laughing now?

Kat had a little drama and so HFing over it now. Bring out the wine and tequila! Bonus? Adult children can make drinks now! Thank you Covid.

Emeshed much? How much do your kids really know you? Just throw a pandemic in and then it’s no holds barred. Have you gotten caught having “fun?” Wanna guess which one of the Two Gals did?

2.53- Having fun in the boudoir… hours of fun. Collapsing in exhaustion and ecstasy and the door creeks open. In one of those slow motion movements, Mr. Right Here Right Now and I turn to see… want to guess?

Thank you, Universe. That is was the Basking in the After Glow, best moment to be caught having sex, by your kids. I wonder what my son is thinking…

4.34- The Two Gals preparing for podcast. Covid19 alert on phones. Shifted energy into a celebration that we are not going to invest in the drama of the Great Outside. Pay no attention to the voices behind the curtain! Pushed through the reactivity to stop the fun and lean into the drama and leaned into the FUN instead!

Adrenaline kicks in and can sometimes feel “fun.” Nothing really “good” happening. Not going to bury our heads but just not going to freak out. Take a beat and breathe.

Where’s the fun been? Hard to give permission to have fun- serious issues in culture, health system. Who are we to be having fun?

Adrenaline is not the same as fun. American culture walks around depleted from life because we’re surrounded by adrenaline and the high it creates. Survival/Ego based. Temporary state.

Sustained fun, joy-filled THAT’S FUN!

With all that’s going on societally, it’s common to be shamed for having fun right now. How do we get that hit, that fix, if we can’t express our fun? Buy into the drama.

10.34- Is it okay to be living the good life now? Krista turns to her spirituality. In our resonance with God, we are here to be happy in honor of God. Be joyful, be happy, be creative, be loving. That’s God!

We can feel all that is going on AND be in our joy. We don’t have to step out of it.

Universal Beingness, that is God, is who we are.

11.59 Think about watching kids play. They’re just carefree, fully involved in the fun itself. We get to do the same thing, despite the pressure on us.

12.30 Want to know what Katherine postulates?

Highest spiritual attainment is joy. Joy exists in most intensely painful moments, at times.

Beauty in the release of pain but still joyful for the expression of God found in that moment.

Fun is slightly different but full of joy.

Have to have joy before fun. Have to embody it.

13.35- Krista realized a couple years ago that she’d never had fun unless it was from an activity. Crafted moments of happiness. Not generated from inside.

Common denominator is connection. Being connected to who we are with, ourselves, and the divinity that we are. Start with connection to divinity? Gals might not agree on this. Ah the mysteries of life.

Enneagram 7- Katherine?

Dali Lama- so funny, jokes around, pokes people in the belly, bows then bursts out laughing. He can’t contain how big the Spirit is in his body. He’s not blind to the suffering but brings the joy, humor, and fun despite it all.

16.30- Leader of his country, sp leader of his people, Chinese came in and took everything. He was asked why he wasn’t angry that everything was taken. His response, “You’re absolutely right. So then, why would I give him my mind?” POWERFUL.

Why give up your joy? It’s so easy for us to give it up for the drama but the reverse isn’t true?

Might as well face it we’re addicted to… drama.

18.32 Wanna hear about the real life training kids are getting these days? Who’s the better parent? The world is changing and kids need to take on new roles. Shift happens!

19.11 Expressing the Repression of our Joy!

So ready to have joy!

Perfect time to be stepping away and releasing the reins on their lives. Krista’s been raising them on her own for 5 years. As one by one they leave, things release more.

22.00 Pulling back the veil on what real life is! This is what change looks like! The Episode that was almost not aired!.

Through Covid- no more 6:30a wake ups, no effing lunches to make, no pulling them out of bed,

20 years of doing something out of programming, Life Sucking, to do it and now the fun of Covid is the freedom of schedule. I’m not a 6:30a wake up cheerful kinda gal.

Fun Robbers-

So hard to not follow what’s societally appropriate, what matters,

Today, are you willing to give yourself a day off from seriousness?

Are you willing to give your life the fullness of JOY, no matter what’s going on?

24.07 Mr. RHRN bucks the system. His brain doesn’t think that way. He questions our cultural norm. Lives his life from Fun! That’s all he wants and anything else makes him angry. Or is he just saying out loud what we all think?

26.41- having an opinion and being able to debate can be fun. Katherine wants her freedom! Freedom to talk about what she wants to talk about. You can disagree without hating each other. But that’s not how it is any more! Or is it drama?

Our brains are drawn to go to the heaviness. We have a hard time sitting in the Fun.

30.15 Fun can’t be had if we shut down the Field of Loving:

openness, loving, kindness, compassion, creativity, and curiosity.

The Against-ness that comes out from someone needing to make themselves right or wrong. (Krista)

When the judgment comes in, is when the ego identity takes over.

Can still have Fun in the Friction if we just treat each other as humans.

Can we still be Light beings and embrace the Fun and still go out and do the work?

If we can’t have fun, what the fuck is the point? There’s always going to be something in the world that needs healing, that needs dealing with.

We have to maintain our energy, light, loving, joy, and fun in order to be solid Light Beings and go out and impact change.

Existential Exhaustion. Months and months of worrying about things we can’t get clear answers on. Finally, just give it up.

You have self-leadership. The Two Gals advocate that you love each, enjoy each other. Argue but don’t destroy each other.

You’ve officially got permission to go and have some FUN! It gives the next person and the next person to have fun. So that you can inspire others to see the way through. Joy is infectious. Joy is absolutely possible!

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