How nice guys sabotage their success (Deep dive)

The Awakened Man

Are you constantly bending over backwards to please others, burying your own desires in the process?
Do you find yourself constantly seeking validation and approval, striving for an unattainable perfection that leaves you feeling dissatisfied?
Join Yaseen, Pete and me (Ben) as we embark on a transformative discussion that challenges the conventional "nice guy" narrative and its profound impact on men's personal and professional lives.
We share our own journeys of grappling with these tendencies, and provide insights into how you can reclaim your authentic power.
We delve into the complexities of "nice guy" behaviors, drawing from our own experiences and those of the men we've worked with. We explore how these behaviors often stem from unmet childhood needs, and how they manifest in relationships and leadership roles.
We discuss the intricacies of codependency, the pitfalls of perfectionism, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries.
We also highlight the role of support and empathy in overcoming these tendencies, emphasizing the importance of self-approval and conscious male friendships.
You'll go aay from this podcast with practical strategies to help you break free from the "nice guy" mindset.
We challenge you to examine your relationships and work life, equipping you with the tools necessary to cultivate healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Our ultimate aim?
To empower you to step into your most authentic self, free from the shackles of external validation.
So, join us on this journey of self-awareness and personal growth, and discover a fresh perspective on the complex landscape of male behaviors and self-improvement. Together, let's redefine what it means to be a "nice guy".

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1. Understanding Nice Guy Behaviors (00:00:00)

2. Impact of Nice Guy Behavior on Relationships (00:03:40)

3. Unmet Childhood Needs Impact (00:16:04)

4. Nice Guy Syndrome and Toxic Shame (00:28:24)

5. Nice Guys and Codependency (00:34:16)

6. Overcoming Nice Guy Tendencies With Support (00:43:18)

7. The Importance of Boundaries and Perfectionism (00:53:53)

8. Understanding Boundaries and Seeking Perfection (01:04:26)

9. Setting Boundaries and Defining Healthy Masculinity (01:11:09)

10. Men's Ambitions and Shadow Work (01:19:50)