87. When You Take Revenge

Skipping Stones with Seth Roberts

What if getting even costs you the most?
This episode breaks down why revenge never brings relief and why chasing fairness keeps you stuck. You hear how retaliation drains your energy, hurts your future, and traps you in mental replays.

We share a three-question filter to guide any response:

• Will this make your life worse?
• Will this protect anyone?
• Will this change the person’s behavior? It helps you choose an action that serves you, especially when the other person holds power.

You also hear a story from divorce that shows why choosing better, not fair, protects what matters. Some people who cause harm still win on paper, but they live with an emptiness no victory fixes. Letting go frees you to move forward.

If resentment pulls at you, this episode gives you a clearer path.
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1. 87. When You Take Revenge (00:00:00)

2. Intentional Living And Focus (00:00:01)

3. The Trap Of Chasing Fairness (00:00:25)

4. When Power And Revenge Collide (00:02:02)

5. Three Questions Before You Act (00:02:43)

6. Release Resentment And Rumination (00:03:14)

7. Revenge Rarely Rights The Past (00:04:27)

8. Choosing Better Over Fair In Divorce (00:05:27)

9. Moral Bankruptcy And Hollow Wins (00:05:50)

10. Closing Notes And How To Connect (00:06:51)