Initiating Sex: Key Troubleshooting Questions for Couples

Sex Help for Smart People

This episode helps couples troubleshoot problems around initiating sexy time. In it, I guide you through how to talk over two of the most important topics for you and your partner to cover:
1) How are we dividing up initiation and do we both like the split? If not, what kind of split might feel better to each of us and why?
2) Are the initiation styles we've been using working as well as they can for both of us? How can we improve them?

We'll cover some styles of initiation that can fall flat and why, plus other common pitfalls. I'll also help you distinguish between initiation problems and other sexual challenges in relationships. As always, this episode will emphasize the need to ensure ongoing consent, pleasure, and enthusiasm from each partner, rather than assuming that "initiation" means some sort of foregone conclusion.
Join me and discover how to troubleshoot your own challenges around initiation today.

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