19. The Feminist Myth: Can Embracing Traditional Roles Unlock True Happiness? with Katie Plowman

We Don't Deserve Men

In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host engages in a deep and insightful conversation with Katie Plowman, wife of a previous guest, Devin. The episode delves into the themes of femininity, motherhood, and marriage, discussing the dynamics of relationships against the backdrop of millennial conditioning towards masculinity. Katie shares personal experiences of marriage, early motherhood, infertility challenges, and the societal expectations faced by women. The conversation explores the importance of traditional values and gender roles, the significance of having shared values in relationships, and the notion of sacrifice for fulfillment in life and marriage. Katie emphasizes the essence of feminine energy and the idea that true happiness may lie in acknowledging and embracing one's authentic self. Moreover, the discussion touches on societal pressures on women, gender roles, and how the younger generation perceives partnership and family. This episode offers a reflective and personal perspective on re-evaluating life choices amid changing social narratives. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:15 Embracing Femininity and Challenging Societal Norms 03:13 Katie's Marriage and Motherhood Journey 05:38 Traditional Values vs. Modern Expectations 12:31 The Role of Competition in Relationships 17:13 Balancing Traditional Roles and Modern Support 33:45 The Importance of Shared Values and Decision Making 45:51 Navigating Marriage Challenges 46:27 Setting Goals and Vision Boards 48:48 Balancing Parenthood and Relationship 53:49 The Joys of Motherhood 57:14 Embracing Femininity 01:08:24 The Importance of Community 01:23:32 The Role of Men and Women in Relationships 01:30:20 Concluding Thoughts on Womanhood