11. A Crazy Story of Being Arrested, Publicly Shamed & Labelled a "Creep" with Ghasan Alesayi

We Don't Deserve Men

In this compelling episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host speaks with Ghasan Alesayi (or, as he's known in the film industry, Sam Al Esai, about his arrest and subsequent public shaming post a dating coach session on August 8th, 2023. The discussion spans the impact of allegations and media fallout on Ghassan's life, alongside his struggle to reclaim his identity. They further analyze the fast-paced nature of social media judgments and the pressures of modern masculinity, advocating for empathy, vulnerability, and better communication between genders. This episode offers a thoughtful exploration of dating, societal misconceptions, and the necessity for personal integrity and reflection in a crisis of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:18 Ghassan's Arrest and Public Shaming 04:37 The Aftermath and Support System 09:23 Reevaluating Relationships and Self 11:47 Deciding to Work with a Dating Coach 14:33 Therapy and Social Experiments 18:09 Fears and Realizations 36:13 The Arrest Incident 48:28 The Power of Acceptance and Transformation 49:42 Mindset Shifts and Personal Growth 50:17 Exploring Masculinity and Power Dynamics 54:22 Navigating Empathy and Vulnerability 56:59 Support Systems and Social Reactions 01:05:17 Documentary Goals and Cancel Culture 01:13:27 The Dating Crisis and Societal Pressures 01:37:13 Misconceptions and Gender Dynamics 01:42:28 Final Reflections and Takeaways Get in touch: Email: [e-mail] IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/