357. How to Let Go of Control and Find Peace (with Panache Desai)

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In this episode, Panache Desai and Matt LeBris dive into what happens when we stop trying to fix the unfixable, surrender control, and embrace who we truly are. We explore how ambition and success can mask deeper wounds, why so many of us feel “empty” even after we’ve achieved, and how letting go of past identity can open the door to lasting peace. Panache shares powerful insights, practical steps, and stories about what it really looks like to live with presence, self-love, and authenticity.

Who This Episode is For...

• Anyone feeling exhausted from chasing success that never satisfies.

• People longing for peace, presence, and authenticity.

• Black Sheep & non-conformists who often feel different or out of place.

• Those who are ready to stop “working on themselves” and instead begin “being themselves.”

Key Takeaways From This Episode...

• Success and achievement won’t heal past pain — acknowledging we are powerless over the past is the first step toward freedom.

• Surrender is not giving up; it’s a shift from doing-ness to being-ness.

• Love of self is foundational: you can’t truly love others if you haven’t accepted and embraced yourself.

• Letting go of control doesn’t mean inaction; it means trusting the natural unfolding.

• Imperfection, mortality, human vulnerability—they’re essential. When we stop pretending and start being profoundly human, joy and peace follow.

Resources Discussed...

• Website / Official Hub: Panache’s site with programs, events, and resources — PanacheDesai.com panachedesai.com

• Instagram: @panachedesai

• You Are Enough: Revealing The Soul to Discover Your Power, Potential, and Possibility — Panache’s major book releasing the message that you are already whole, not something to be fixed. Grab Your Copy

• Call to Calm — Free daily meditation / presence practices via Zoom to ground, breathe, connect. Call to Calm

• Impact — A 3-month mentoring / small-group journey for people committed to living from truth. panachedesai.com