Why your wife can show your kids affection but not you

Relationship Revival with Dr. Jon Dabach

In this podcast episode, we explore the frustrating dynamic where a wife showers affection on her children but appears emotionally distant from her husband. As a couples counselor, I delve into various reasons behind this behavior, from emotional exhaustion to unresolved resentment, and offer insights into how understanding these reasons can help manage expectations and improve the marital relationship.

Using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy model, we discuss how everyone has different parts of themselves they present in various relationships, and why a woman's affection for her children doesn't necessarily translate to her interactions with her husband. By recognizing the emotional toll of juggling multiple responsibilities and addressing unresolved issues, couples can work towards a more affectionate and fulfilling relationship.

Interested in working with Jon directly? Find him at https://MrSpirituality.com