How Narcissists Make You Feel: Clues to Protect Yourself
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Narcissist relationships aren’t just with our significant other, spouse, partner, etc. They can happen with any kind of relationship. And once we’ve attracted a narcissist once, particularly if it’s been a significant relationship, unfortunately, we will continue that pattern, until we know the signs and then act on them! This episode helps you identify how you feel when you are in a relationship with a narcissist, so you can learn to identify those signs early and decide what actions you need to take given the specific situation you are in.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
5 ways to identify you have a narcissist in your life
- Everything is your fault
- You feel like you’ve lost yourself
- You can’t do anything right
- You feel afraid… (almost) all the time
- You make yourself smaller… to make someone else feel bigger
BEST MOMENTS
When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but you stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth just like you did.” ― Jill Blakeway
You will never really see how toxic someone is until you breathe fresher air.” — Unknown
A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.” — Karla Grimes
There is simply no winning with a narcissist. He will treat you so horribly that you will become withdrawn and depressed and then he will turn around and say, ‘You’re no fun anymore, you’re always so depressed. I need to be with someone more positive.’" — Susan Williams
You might as well bang your head into a brick wall if you expect the narcissist to be reasonable, empathetic or human in any way. If you sense or witness any of these traits, there is an ulterior motive. When the narcissist is being nice, it’s because they have something to gain.” — Tina Swithin
Relationship with a narcissist in a nutshell: You will go from being the perfect love of their life, to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give your everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially, and then get blamed for it.” — Bree Bonchay
VALUABLE RESOURCES
If you’re struggling in a relationship and wondering if it might be controlling, you’re not alone. Download my free guide at locatecoaching.com/freegift to help you find clarity and confidence.
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ABOUT THE HOST
Jill McKnight is a mindset coach and speaker as well as an Erickson Professional Certified Coach. She specializes in supporting those who are rebuilding their lives and finding their most aligned path forward.
Jill knows that the tips and tricks in each episode work – because she’s used them to change her life and her clients have used them to change their lives! Jill has the education and life experience to help you rebuild your life, whatever the circumstances… and move from surviving to thriving!
Through her talks, events, programs, and podcast “Life After: From Surviving to Thriving”, Jill provides her clients with a unique mix of thoughtful guidance and sincere care. She lives in a small town in Washington with her son and is committed to co-create a world with more hope, connection, and healing for us all.
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