Jim's Story

Hey! Am I Adopted podcast

In this episode, Gene Trowbridge and his family interview Jim Resha, who shares his adoption story. Jim grew up with his adoptive father, Ed, and had no recollection of his biological father, Sam. His adoption was finalized at the age of four, and his name was changed. At 19, Jim's great uncle uncovered the identity of his biological father, leading to their first meeting. While Jim's mother was supportive, Ed felt hurt by the reunion. Jim and his sister traveled to San Diego to meet their father, driven by curiosity and a desire to learn more about their past.
Jim Resha opens up about the emotional journey of being adopted, including the challenges of navigating relationships with both his adoptive and biological families. He reflects on the importance of communication and understanding within adoptive families and offers advice for those in similar situations. The conversation also delves into topics such as addiction among adoptees and the significance of birthdays for those who are adopted.

• Adoption stories can vary greatly, but many adoptees have questions about their biological origins and struggle with issues of identity and belonging.
• The process of adoption can involve changing a child's name, which can have both practical and emotional implications.
• Adoptees may have different relationships with their adopted and biological parents, and these relationships can evolve over time.
• Reunions with biological parents can be emotional and complex, and the reactions of other family members can vary.
• Curiosity about one's biological origins and a desire to fill in the gaps of one's personal history are common motivations for seeking out biological parents. Reconnecting with a biological parent after many years can be emotionally meaningful and significant.
• Adoptees may have complex relationships with both their adoptive and biological families, and it can take time to navigate these relationships.
• Communication and understanding are key in adoptive families, and it is important to have open conversations about adoption and biological connections.
• Birthdays can be a sensitive time for adoptees, as they may reflect on their biological family and their own sense of identity.
• Each adoptee's experience is unique, and it is important to approach adoption with empathy and respect.