#62 When I show up it's going to be good!

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Don’t worry. It’s not just you!

-“Thank you for calling GIH where we instigate growth one call at a time where we utilize antiquated technology to deliver 3-minute leadership lessons every day of the week! This is message #62 and I am Aaron Havens.

The world lacks confidence.

The greatest of them all… the most influential, the smartest, the best looking, the highest achievers… everyone… gets nervous and self conscious!

Yep, we all wonder if we sounded stupid.

Yep, we all hope they don’t find out we really don’t know what we are talking about

Yep, we all have had the moment we realize our zipper is down or we have something in our teeth. Yep, no one is perfect. We all want to be liked.

Can I ask a favor of you?

Today, the next place you walk into… walk in with you head high.

Gather up your confidence, do some positive self talk… and believe in yourself.

Confidence is super attractive. Positivity opens up doors to opportunity.

People are drawn to those who are self-assured and sure of themselves.

When you show up, it’s going to be good!

Talk like you mean it. Don’t care if you have a booger on your nose or if your hair is not perfectly in place. What you instill in those around you when you walk assured in yourself is a quiet confidence that they can do the same. If all of us can just show up in our true authentic self today maybe we'll all a little more. Maybe we all be a little bit more OK if we don't look perfect maybe when the next time we fall, we can laugh at ourselves and give permission to the world at large to laugh at themselves.

Big take away:

Be kind to that person in the mirror. You’re doing great.

Laugh at yourself the next time you mess up today.

If someone around you fumbles today, help them recover with confidence!

Thanks for calling in today. Tune in tomorrow for a fresh new topic. At the sound of the beep:

“When I show up, it’s going to be good”