Am I Autistic? Real talk with Lil Desille

Does my Psychologist Like Me?

"You've tried so hard to fit a mould that was not built for you to begin with. Will there be another mould I can fit into or do I need to make my own?"

In episode 5 of “Doest my Psychologist Like Me?” Host Anna Oliver talks real talk with Clinical Registrar Lil Desille. In this fun and energetic discussion Lil shares her experiences as a clinical practitioner who is both neurodivergent herself and specializes in serving neurodivergent clients. Lil provides insider knowledge about the unique challenges and strengths of those with ADHD and autism, discussing her journey of self-discovery, diagnosis, and negotiating life as a psychologist with these conditions. She sheds light on the intersection of neurodiversity and couple therapy, discussing problems such as sensory and communication mismatches, different types of relationships (polyamorous, monogamous), and the importance of negotiation over compromise. She also talks about her work with teenagers and the critical need for inclusive sex education.

This pod includes:

Lil’s Personal Experience with ADHD and Autism

Discussion on Neurodiversity and Mental Health

Lil’s Interest in Sexology and Its Impact

Identifying Signs of ADHD and Autism

Managing ADHD and Autism in Professional Life

Analyzing Neurodivergent Intimacy

Neurodivergent Relationships: Challenges and Solutions

The Power of Negotiation in Relationships

The Importance of Understanding Neurodivergent Intimacy

Maintaining Mental Wellness: Strategies and Challenges

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