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Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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Hey there, welcome back to the CMP Book Club! Today, we're diving into Chapter 3: "Nothing Has Gone Wrong Here." I'm excited to tackle a common myth about parenting - the idea that good parenting is all about having perfectly behaved kids. Let's unpack why your child's meltdowns are actually important milestones, not a measure of your parenting ski…
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Chapters 0:00 Global Prevalence of Child Abuse 3:38 Impact of COVID-19 Lockdowns on Child Abuse 8:37 Insidious Changes and Long-term Effects of Lockdowns 10:43 The Bomb in the Brain 13:14 Adverse Childhood Experiences: ACE Study Introduction 15:45 Underreporting of Childhood Physical Abuse 20:10 Prevalence of Adverse Childhood Experiences 26:41 Hea…
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Drop the green juice, call a friend, and tune in for a game-changing episode! Michelle, fresh from the 8-Week Parenting Pivot, spills the tea on her parenting transformation. Swapping discipline for connection, she witnessed incredible shifts in her family dynamics. Michelle's story isn't just inspiring—it's a total game-changer in the parenting pl…
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The "baby powder blizzard of 2007," was a pivotal moment that changed the trajectory of my parenting. I decided to abandon traditional disciplinary methods and began challenging the notion that discipline is the essence of parenting. Drawing from developmental psychology and attachment theory, I eventually discovered the five steps to transition fr…
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In today's episode, we're peeling back the curtain on one family's transformative journey with Connect Method Parenting (CMP). Emily, a dedicated mom of four adopted children, opens up about her path to connection, revealing the real, raw, and unfiltered experiences that have reshaped her parenting approach. As a teacher turned full-time mom, Emily…
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Ever felt like you were thrown into the deep end of parenting without so much as a “how-to” YouTube video? Today on the Pod, we're tossing out the old parenting playbook of timeouts and gold stars and diving into something truly revolutionary – Connect Method Parenting. Parenting can feel like getting ready to set sail only to realize your GPS is s…
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Shownotes 0:00 Introduction to Peaceful Parenting 2:30 Philosophical Perspectives on Morality 3:47 Rethinking Punishment and Discipline 5:38 Teaching by Example 6:58 Hypocrisy and Violence in Parenting 7:34 Moral Instruction: Be Like Me 10:21 Modeling Behavior for Children 15:34 Advocating for Peaceful Parenting 16:37 The Syllogisms of Peaceful Par…
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🔥 “CMP is the only thing that has actually worked, and I’ve tried everything. I had read over 40 parenting books when I found Connect Method Parenting.” -Mary Today, we’re sliding into your earbuds with a story that will make you rethink everything you thought was set in stone about wrangling your kiddos. Enter Mary. Six kids deep, including two se…
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Let's dig into the liberating truth that we can craft the future with our children, free from the chains of bygone days. This episode is not just about listening—it's about action. Andee unveils the three core strategies of Connect Method Parenting that guarantee results when applied consistently. She delves into the importance of safety, unconditi…
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Today, we're diving deep into a tricky topic: off-track behavior. But don't worry, we're not talking about rules and punishments. Nope, we’re talking about how to handle these off-track moments with style and understanding! Andee shows us how to turn those "What on earth?!" moments into chances for connection, growth, and better listening. Get read…
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Chapters 0:00 Introduction to Empathy 1:34 Understanding Emotions 2:51 The Role of Empathy in Relationships 3:46 The Power of Forgiveness 5:12 Consequences of Endless Forgiveness 6:33 Manipulation through Verbal Abuse 8:41 The Dynamics of Abuse Excusers 12:18 Enlisting Co-Abusers 13:42 The Role of Older Siblings 16:42 The Pressure to Appease 20:12 …
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Do you ever feel like there aren't enough minutes in the day to connect with your kids? Or lament that you're not making the most of the time you DO have with your kids? What if your focus on how you're unable to create the relationships you want with your kids is the very thing getting in the way of creating the dreamy relationships you so despera…
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One of the great paradoxes of parenting is learning how to be both firm and compassionate. Andee calls it the middle way of parenting. Seems kind of impossible but once you’re there it feels like coming home. Parenting Sovereignty opens up the possibility of showing up emotionally neutral regardless of how off-track their behavior is. Tapping into …
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Today’s episode is part two of a LIVE coaching series. In Episode 25, you were able to listen to a CMP coaching call I had with my amazing client, Jessica. A few months after that coaching session, we jumped on a call to document her incredible wins and progress. Now you get to be a fly on the wall and witness the process of implementing CMP in act…
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Do you ever feel like no matter what you try the kids won't do their chores? Or lament that if you were a better mom then they'd happily keep their room clean? What if your fixation on getting the kids to do their chores is the wrong fixation to have?! I'm fairly certain it is! If you can relate, I invite you to pull up a seat and listen in on this…
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https://dai.ly/k4pEjHovef5w0yA6TPg https://cdn.freedomainradio.com/PP/FDR_PP_18.mp3 The episode explores child abuse cycles and the importance of recognizing, preventing, and breaking free from abusive behaviors. It highlights neglect's lasting effects on well-being and advocates for social support and therapy for healing. Brief Summary In this epi…
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Hey friends! TGIW and time for a new episode! Leave the to-do list for later, because nothing packs a connective punch like dropping these three parenting mishaps that often fly under the radar. Once you see them you can't unsee them, and once you see them you're gonna want to stop doing them ASAP. Homework: At the top of a blank sheet of paper wri…
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Feel like your old self is tripping you up? Trust me, you're not the only one tangled up in doubt, confusion, and regretful thoughts from the past. Recently, a client asked Andee how she could have more self-confidence and let go of thoughts like 'I'm not enough for my kids' and 'I can't figure this out.' Both left her feeling uncertain, deficient,…
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One of the great ironies is that while we deeply desire transformation in our parenting (better relationships, more cooperation and patience) we think the way to do it is to be hard on ourselves. In this episode, we debunk the myth that a failure to change is a failure of motivation and willpower. Turns out you don't have a week will, you just have…
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https://cdn.freedomainradio.com/PP/FDR_PP_17.mp3 https://dai.ly/k2MoIHGZK61FKOzWyOi This episode explores peaceful parenting, the drawbacks of physical punishment on children, understanding evildoers, and the cycle of justification. It emphasizes prevention over cure and advocates for virtuous parenting practices. 2024, Stefan Molyneux Peaceful Par…
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Put down the green juice and call your friend. Nothing packs a wellness punch like improving your ability to regulate your nervous system. In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting we're digging into why regulating your nervous system will up level your parenting in surprising and connecting ways. You're getting a sneak peak of a class I taugh…
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January is a time when you may be considering the changes you want to make this year and what you're going to do to hit your parenting goals. You might be considering ways to improve your relationships with your kids, increase cooperation, and create more peace in your home. If so then this is the episode for you. Last week I taught Parent Camp & T…
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Are your kids' emotional outbursts driving you nuts? WHEN those BIG emotions are processed and fully felt, they become the engine to your child's maturation. Translation...when you help them feel their emotions they become less emotionally volatile. Sound backward? Let me break it down for you. In this week's episode, we’re dissecting the 50/50 Emo…
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Video: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/kTfNzwnxdG0ic1zS7g6 Part 16 Restitution in parenting: honesty, accountability, and confronting child abuse. Challenging abusers' conscience, advocating for consequences and support for victims. 2024, Stefan Molyneux Peaceful Parenting https://www.freedomain.com/donate Brief Summary In this episode, we explor…
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Want to create a better relationship with your kids?! In today’s episode, we’re navigating the terrain of relationships in the context of parenting. I'm cracking open the misconception that two people feeling good is the key to healthy relationships. Tune in for a clever exploration that might just change the way you think about your relationship w…
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Did you know there's a set of parenting tools we've inherited from society that don't create deep connection and trust with our kids? I'm sharing an episode that was originally aired on the Love Your Mom Life Podcast. Join me as Nikki and I explore what those tools are and what to do instead. Next Steps: >> Apply for the CMP Study here: https://cmp…
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Brief Summary In this episode, we explore peaceful parenting and the impact of childhood experiences on our perspective. We discuss the importance of literature, reflect on the Scared Straight program, and emphasize the need for genuine apologies in parenting. We stress the significance of moral knowledge and highlight the importance of trust and t…
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Ever noticed how punishments and rewards can be like the puppet strings of compliance? They're pros at making folks toe the line, follow orders, and be on time. So, if your game plan is to command obedience, sweetening the deal or tossing in a threat might sound like a solid strategy. But let's talk real talk – if you're all about raising awesome h…
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Brief Summary In this episode, we discuss the importance of prioritizing the well-being and protection of children. We critique the current education system and its failure to provide quality education. We condemn the manipulation and indoctrination of children for political gain. Join us as we explore how to create a world where children are safeg…
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https://dai.ly/k1YJK1FOqCjUuszMOhR This episode delves into peaceful parenting strategies for getting kids to clean their rooms. It emphasizes honest communication, understanding motivations, and creating a positive environment through open dialogue and modeling desired behavior. Brief Summary In this episode, we explore the complexities of getting…
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Are you concerned that accepting your child's off-track behavior might be seen as condoning it, or worse, encouraging it? In today's episode, we're dispelling this myth. Embracing your child's actions with unconditional love and acceptance can actually be the key to positive change. Discover strategies to constructively address challenging behavior…
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Connection-based parenting is not some woo-woo, fluffy, feel-good idea. It's a state of being that has the weight of an enormous body of scientific, peer-reviewed literature to vouch for its hefty positive effect on parenting. Tune into today's episode of Connect Method Parenting as Andee Martineau talks with Stephanie, a parent she's worked with f…
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In this episode, we continue to dive into people-pleasing and its effect on parenting. We explore the impact of striving to meet others' expectations on your parenting style, your relationship with your children, and both your and your child's well-being. We explore strategies to balance kindness with assertiveness, setting healthy boundaries, and …
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The conversation highlights the damaging impact of conformity to oppressive systems and the need to challenge societal norms. Peaceful parenting and nurturing critical thinking can break the cycle of abuse and empower children to challenge harmful norms. Brief Summary In this conversation, we discuss the harmful effects of conforming to oppressive …
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Part 11 This episode discusses what makes humans unique, the importance of communication, the need for parenting, judging morality, impacts of slavery, and preparing children for adulthood. Brief Summary In this episode, we discuss the essence of being human and how our capacity for abstract thought sets us apart from animals. We explore the signif…
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Summary: In this conversation, we discuss the importance of taking responsibility for our choices and actions as parents. We explore how blaming our children and projecting our flaws onto them hinders our self-improvement. We emphasize the need for self-reflection, modeling good behavior, and prioritizing our own well-being while raising children. …
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In this episode, we dive into people-pleasing and its effect on parenting. We explore the impact of striving to meet others' expectations on your parenting style, your relationship with your children, and both your and your child's well-being. We explore strategies to balance kindness with assertiveness, setting healthy boundaries, and nurturing au…
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Chapters 0:00:00 The Challenge of Religious Morality and Lying 0:02:03 The Morality of Self-Defense and Taking Back What's Stolen 0:03:18 Understanding Morality in Parenting and Dealing with Lies 0:04:28 The Importance of Trust and Keeping Promises in Relationships 0:05:42 Exceptions to Keeping Promises and the Fairness of Honesty 0:06:46 Agreement…
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Chapters 0:00:00 Applying moral standards to peaceful parenting. 0:02:21 Reflecting on parental influence and taking responsibility. 0:05:09 Apologizing and standing up to bullies in and out of family. 0:07:28 Virtue as Hypocrisy and Enslavement 0:09:52 The Impact of Training and Bullying on Children's Respect 0:12:43 Parental Loss of Control: The …
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How can you balance household tasks and your children's emotional needs? In this episode we tackle common challenges many parents face, exploring the trade-offs between striving for a clean home and getting the chores done while trying to also nurture deep connections with the kids. It challenges conventional disciplinary approaches, advocating for…
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Do you find yourself yelling and feeling frustrated with the kids to often? Today I'm laying out how to STOP yelling for good. I break down what leads to yelling and how to turn things around for good. In this episode you're getting a sneak peak at a How To Stop Yelling Workshop I did a few months ago. Check out the full workshop here: https://cmp.…
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Victimhood is impacting your parenting. That's why in this episode I'm breaking down the characteristics of victim mentality and comparing them to the characteristics of vulnerability mentality. Overcoming victim mentality by embracing vulnerability mentality will help you become a calm, confident, and connected parent. Next Steps: >> Apply for the…
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Parenting can feel meh. Most days you do the same basic things over and over again: Wake the kids up. Keep the peace. Prepare meals. Pick up the house. Help with homework. Try to connect with the kids. Put everyone to bed. It can feel monotonous. It can feel like you're making no progress towards your parenting dreams and goals. But it doesn't need…
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What does Connect Method Parenting look like in real life? Have you ever thought, "Parenting without consequences, timeouts, and ultimatums sounds amazing, but not realistic!" Has your brain told you that if you tried Connect Method Parenting your kids would run wild? I get it! I used to think the same things. That's why today we are diving into a …
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Chapters0:00:00 Setting the stage for Peaceful Parenting0:03:24 The short-term effects of hitting children0:05:23 The Impact of Verbal Abuse on Children0:07:29 The Myth of Natural Tantrums and Child Abuse0:10:49 Tantrums: The Frustration of Unmet Needs in Children0:11:13 Recognizing the Disabilities of Young Children0:14:31 Desperate to Know: Red B…
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If you want to master parenting, then you've got to master negative emotions. Because the better you get at negative emotions the better you get at parenting. In this episode, I'm going to teach you how to take control of your emotions and make them work for you instead of against you. Learning how to feel negative emotions is uncomfortable, but it…
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Long SummaryIn this lecture, we explore the evolutionary factors that shape our behaviors in dating and mating. We begin by acknowledging that our templates for sexual success are our parents, as they have successfully reproduced. Throughout history, it has been crucial for individuals to follow the parenting practices of their parents, even if the…
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Long SummaryIn this episode, we delve into the complex topic of child abuse and the societal contradictions surrounding it. The speaker argues that children are often treated like slaves, lacking the power to make choices or hold their parents accountable for their actions. They are provided with basic necessities, but are not allowed to speak up o…
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PART 1: THEORY Peaceful Parenting: What Is It?The strangest thing about peaceful parenting is that it is nothing other than what we all accept and practice in the vast majority of our daily lives.Peaceful parenting is nothing alien or foreign or revolutionary or contradictory.Peaceful parenting is exactly what you teach your children – how you live…
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