Judgment in Relationships

The Love Psychologist: Transforming Your Relationships from the Inside-Out

This podcast episode talks about judgment in relationships and dating. It covers:

-What is judgment? It is useful?

-Should we assess our relationships & partner?

-How is judgment different from criticism and shame?

-Should you meet judgment with judgment?

-What are some ways to deal with being judged?

-Are there other ways for you to approach things other than being judgmental?

-Where does forgiveness of self & others play a role?

-Do you fall into the trap of being right?

-Can you find the source of the pain?

-Can you soothe your wounded child?

-Is there a lesson to learn?

-Do you think your intention or theirs plays an important role?

-Is judgment coming from fear or love?

-Can you see the situation from your head, heart, or Spirit?

and more...

You can contact Dr. Sherman for relationship coaching on her website

Related books mentioned:

-The Gremlin: 10 Tools to Shush that Negative Voice in Your Head, by Paulette Kouffman Sherman, available here

-The Dark Side of the Light Chasers by Debbie Ford, available here

-Inner Bonding by Margaret Paul, available here

-The Law of Attraction in Marriage by Paulette Sherman, available here (it can help you make requests instead of judgment and to stay positive)

-The Law of Attraction in Marriage Action Journal by Paulette Sherman