You're Not Responsible for Others Reactions Anymore!

Heal Religious Trauma - Stevie Noah

So you chose to leave religion behind.
Now Mom-Dad-Grandma-Grandpa-Bro’s-Sisters and everyone else you know got’z their panties in a bunch and the whole town is talking about you!
YIKES!
What do you do?
Look, being in a collective religion or cult requires you to consistently ruminate about how your thoughts behaviours and actions affect other people (as well as the big man upstairs). And while that might be a very conscious or moral thing to do as a regular person…
for someone with religious trauma, this becomes a repetitive behaviour of subjugation and people-pleasing.
In fact, this behaviour can get so bad that you literally stop yourself ANYTIME you want to do something new -
- wear that outfit
- go for a new job opportunity
- ask the cutie at the bar out for a date
or even…break the mould and…
OMG HEAVEN FORBID…leave religion (scream face emoji)!!
First, know this, you will NEVER-EVER please everyone.
NEVER!
So don’t even bother trying.
And you’re certainly not going to convince your religious friends and family to be open to your opinions or choices.
Never…they’re are enmeshed to the soul, literally!
Their nervous system and DNA fully believe in the dogma and they ain’t budging. So unless THEY chose to step out of their comfort zone, let them go, compassionately.
And YOU focus on YOU.
If you stop yourself to consider how other people are going to think or feel about the choices you make, you’re programming your nervous system to continue the pattern of people-pleasing. You’re also systematically teaching yourself to not trust your decisions or make any decisions in the first place!
Stop it!
In this audio, I’m giving you permission to live your life!
You are not responsible for anyone's actions anymore. I know that pattern was a MUST as a Christian, but guess what, you’re not doing that anymore.
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ABOUT THE PODCAST
Hi! I'm Stevie, I help religious trauma survivors go from being triggered, self-defeated and stuck in rut, to transforming their lives with mind-body, neural training techniques and consciousness education.
So what I share on this channel is an effortless way to interrupt your FEAR patterns, restore your mind-body connection (aka RE-ASSOCIATE) and get back in touch with the version of you that CAN and WILL CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE!
For this purpose, I created the Free To Be Me Blueprint, a unique guided program that helps religious trauma victims, cult abuse survivors, and people who left a high-control environment create a new identity and life they love in 90 days without triggers, overwhelm, or guilt so they can have a life filled with purpose, happiness and confidence.
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