When you dance with a King HE LEADS, GUIDES, and PROTECTS! It’s not the other way around and if your leading how will you ever carry him over the threshold... think about it! Are you being the MAN in the relationship ladies? Paying bills, rent, grocery, and supplies wifely duties as well... if so that is NOT balance... https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld