Terri Nikki พอดคาสต์

Ok. I'm emotional. like... SUPER emotional. It gets a little difficult to regulate these emotions, but I HAVE to find a way to funnel these emotions into my creativity. sheesh. Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki se…

Opinions are like... well... you know the rest. Everybody has one. I went on a work trip to Orlando and had 3 people express their opinions and recommendations for my life. Here is what I feel about their vantage point and what it has done for my life... for my dreams. *side eye* Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com…

ok. It's here. opportunity. you've thought about it. you've analyzed it. you really wanna do it, but you don't know why you're on pause. take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link f…

I love award shows! ...no, I don't. well, I might hate them... but I love them? :) Idk. But, what I do know is... I feel all the FEELS! Award shows are a way to see others vulnerabilities... you see how they FEEL about their craft. You see how they feel VALID! I think it's time we talk validation for creators... How much validation do you need?? #v…

Terri, where have you been? What's been going on? I'm here y'all. I'm still here. it's been a lot. Here's my story. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BRE…

Man... funemployment taught me a whole lot about myself... I just talk. I'm gonna do this... I'm gonna do that... I just create a whole scenario in my mind of a goal and tell people what I'm gonna do with the whole cocky assumption that I'm ACTUALLY gonna do it. tsk tsk tsk... I've NEVER done this before but I'm gonna do it now. yeah... no. Instead…

I quit my job. I decided to take a leap of faith and just go for it! I pushed all my chips in and... "lost." Here's my dream chasing story. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the lin…

Ego. Identity of self. Perception of self. How do you see yourself? Well, I see myself and I'm like... wait... THIS is what has been stopping me?!?! I have an announcement. Things are changing. Change with me. I'm gonna be TRANSPARENT. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebook…

Do you wanna go viral? Yes! Let's do this thing! ...but first.. a few questions... Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know i…

I'm down today. :( I need to rest up a bit so I will post this rewind because it's one of my FAVORITES! I'm getting hit with a lot of inner critic voices lately and needed a re-up. If you have "the voices" (and I know you do...) take a listen! :) See y'all next week! FROM EPISODE #63: We all have an inner critic. We all have the voices that tell us…

Imagine a time with no internet... No cell phones... No caller ID... No social media... Yes, it seems like FOREVER ago, but most of us were THERE when it all started. SLOWLY but surely, we've become ZOMBIES and allowed this internet thing deteriorate our brains! (Just in time for halloween...) :D Long story short, you're not being productive. You'r…

You've worked. You've been grinding. You hit the wall. You're tired. You now have the option to PUSH thru or say EFF it... What do you choose? We want to dream chase, you gotta have mental toughness, endurance and strength. Lets GO! The Science of Developing Mental Toughness in Health, Work and Life by James Clear Atomic Habits - James Clear…

I love when I'm in the zone! There's nothing like feeling like you are knocking it out and being productive and the SMALLEST thing happens - THEN BOOM! Focus & momentum is GONE. GONE! Lost without a trace. Well, I'm realizing I gotta get this focus ALL the way together! Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffe…

You know what you feel, but you know what you need to do. Now, you feel like you have to fight between what you feel vs what you HAVE to do. Intuition and necessity goes hand in hand to me. I mean... we ignore our intuition. We ignore the small voice. We focus on what needs to be done now instead of trusting and leaning on what we intuitively feel.…

Welcome new listeners! :D yay! Little do y'all know, you've struck GOLD! Yes, GOLD! No, you will not get a check from me, but you will (hopefully) change your mind! Think about what you wanna do. Think about a goal. Think about a dream. Now, think of what it takes to do it... what do you FEEL?!?! Probably a lot of stuff. You may throw out an excuse…

*spooky* I'm so scurred of what's coming up! So... I'm just gonna stop right here. Nope. Can't make me move. Scared. Afraid. I like it where I am. not really, but... what's the alternative? Take a listen! https://www.healthline.com/health/understanding-and-overcoming-fear-of-the-unknown https://www.choosingtherapy.com/fear-of-the-unknown/ Wanna sho…

Why am I going through this? I didn't expect this? Why is this happening to me? I'm sure you've all asked these questions ESPECIALLY during times of turmoil! It can seem like the sky is falling #hennypenny. I want this vision. I see this new life and THIS is happening?!? WTF, bro?!?! Welp, welcome. Welcome to the level up. Welcome to the new phase …

Listen... it's been a whole journey. I wish life didn't diminish and shift us from what makes us feel the most alive! Life has a tendency to drown out that small voice that tells us what WE need. Instead, we focus on what everyone else is doing and follow suit. Eventually, your soul will CRAVE what it needs. You won't be able to ignore it. What wil…

There are so many questions surrounding purpose, passions, gifts and talents. How to I find my purpose? What is my purpose? Is my passion my purpose? Why can't I find my purpose? Man! There is so much information regarding purpose. SO MUCH! ... nothing makes is less confusing. If you still question purpose, take a listen. ...I can talk about this a…

Maybe later, I'll do [fill in the blank]. Look at you... procrastinating your little heart out. We gotta stop this. Your feelings won't change later. You'll still feel the feels of resistance now or later... why not do it now? Procrastination has its perks, but not too many... Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/to…

You read that right. If you know you’re a procrastinator, have you ever asked the questions as to how or why? Do you know what you can do to kill or minimize procrastination? Well, take a listen! https://youtu.be/arj7oStGLkU Tim Urban - Inside the Mind of a Procrastinator - GREAT SPEECH!! :Dโดย Terri Nikki

Whew! Pivital moments have shifted me to look at time. Time is fleeting, so why are we so comfortable in thinking we have it? We don't know what kind of time we have. We have dreams and goals, but if we're always putting it off and procrastinating... we'll NEVER accomplish them. Just a discussion. Just something to make you think. https://markooo.c…

STRETCH those muscles! Loosen up! We need this business to work, so we have to take this vision that we're SOOOO stubborn with and make it a business. However, you have to be FLEXIBLE enough to allow the vision to change. You have to find the SWEET SPOT! We need our creations to take care of us financially... https://www.notsalmon.com/2019/07/05/re…

Indecisiveness leads to missed opportunities, loss of income, loss of TIME. You have to make a decision. Well, how do I do that? ... take a listen. https://www.wellandgood.com/how-to-be-more-decisive/amp/ Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a hand…

Ugh. Just make a damn decision already. HURRY UP! (insert: Angry face emoji) Don't yall get tired of people asking you to make a decision and you have a SLEW of emotions that you go through? You just CANT make a decision OR you're not too comfortable in your decision. Why is that? Well, let's talk about it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/c…

Fear. We all have and experience some level of fear or anxiety. Well, if you're afraid to make mistakes, check out THIS episode. Lets work on this... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/brainsnacks/201203/the-only-5-fears-we-all-share?amp https://hbr.org/2020/06/how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-making-mistakes Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSUR…

I wanna be FREEEEEEE! Live off my CRE AY TIV UH TEEEEEE! So, I guess I'm an entrepreneur (in some sense...) but thing is... this mindset is WHEW! I know I can do it. You know you can do it.. until you don't feel you can. Then what? Let's talk about this self-efficacy and the entrepreneurial mindset. We're transitioning to the ENTREPRENEURIAL MINDSE…

You have it. You have the thing or creation that will financially liberate you. You've researched. You've tested. You've asked the questions. You've started the paper work. You FINALLY take the plunge and then... YOUR MIND IS NOT READY!?!!? Omg. What do I do? WHAT TF DO I DO?!?! I wasn't sure this was a thing... but now I know. We're transitioning …

When you break down the walls of excuses, it's BLARINGLY clear the limitations were because of ME. Now, it's me vs. me. My mind vs my actions. I will win. Living life intentionally. Living life on purpose. No more elephant graveyards. No more electric fences. No more barbed wire. Time to remove those limitations... and I bet it starts with YOU! :) …

Ugh. Options. The right to choose. I mean... ugh. If you stay in that head with that dream, nothing happens. If you choose not to do anything, nothing FURTHER happens. If you choose to put actions on this dream or business, you're gonna be weighing options until you get where you wanna go! Roadblocks on this journey will TEST your vulnerability. It…

We all lose motivation. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. Just take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need s…

Let's think about this thing... how many of us will look at something and say... Nah. Nope. Not gone do it. Not wasting my time... Well, you're ACTUALLY not protecting yourself from rejection, you're self rejecting. Keep on saying no. Keep on! (I'm being sarcastic.) You get in this habit of saying no then you'll NEVER progress. You'll look up and s…

This is kind of a two-fer. I wanted to only talk about one thing but... yeah... that didn't happen. I had a pivotal moment. It caused emotional damage. Things weren't the same. Now I see why I wasn't progressing. I was moving in a space of desperation. Maybe this has happened to you... take a listen. I'm all over the place. Trying somthing new. Joi…

*clutches pearls* I can't BELIEVE they have the audacity... well, honestly... you need it. You need an audacious spirit if you want to move forward in your journey. Take the next step. Be bold. You don't need to be ready. You need to give yourself permission. You just HAVE to have audacity. PERIOD! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://w…

:) Yes. Back from a break. I explain why. But first... Plato's Allegory of a Cave. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamer Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it ma…

We've all been there... what will you choose? Listen... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep…

...yeah... that was clickbait. Sorry not sorry. Honestly, a lot of creatives feel their identity, their fortune, their happiness comes from their creativity. So, what happens when you don't feel creative? What happens when you can't focus? How do you get your mojo back? Should you just give up? Take a listen! Need a great life coach? Business coach…

Say what you want about this man. One thing you can't say, he lacks confidence. In watching the Jeen-Yuhs documentary, I am so happy that we get to see the JOURNEY of success. It's one thing to hear it, but another to see it. Kanye's consistency is admirable. Kanye's vulnerablity is respectible. Kayne's consistency is unmatched. These were my 3 key…

I had to check myself before I wrecked myself. Word. I haven't been 100% honest with you... let alone MYSELF! I pride myself on transparency but honestly, I've been running from an OLD dream myself. This dream is deep seeded. This dream keeps me up. This dream has been through some things. I ran away from it becuase of failure. Now is the time to p…

I'm disconnected. In order to RECONNECT, I need time. I need to ground. I need to find my spark again. In the meantime, listen to this rewind of episode 40: Intution and the Second Opinion. I LOVE this episode. Raw. One take. I'll be back. Grounding... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and …

Ok... so the voice is a choice. You can listen or not. You have that right. But, what if you have no idea that voice has POWER over you? What if you didn't even know you were under the spell of your inner critic? Well, I found this article that I want to share! How to Diminish the Power Of Your Inner Critic - Karen Dempsey Need a great life coach? …

We all have an inner critic. We all have the voices that tell us we CAN'T and SHOULDN'T do. Those are judgments from our inner critc. If we aren't careful, those thoughts can keep us PARALYZED. Lets discuss what that inner critc does to a dream... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all m…

It's been a rough month for your girl. I JUST set my 2022 intention. I thought to just take y'all along on the journey! Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great r…

Welcome to my class - Intentions 101. In this class, I discuss goals and why those bad boys don't stick and the key ingredient... INTENTION! I could talk about this for HOURS... DAYS... MONTHS even, but I'm condensing this as much as I can. If you don't remember anything, remember this... Goals are set in the FUTURE... Intentions are set TUH-DAY! :…

Happy New Year! Happy 2022! I know I missed the 1st episode of the year! Honestly, Life. LIFE! :) But I'm here now! Now, it's the new year... and it's a new you... with NEW goals, right?!?! Well, I don't want you to be one of those 1 month goal setters that ditch that New Year's Resolution as soon as February 1st hits. Take a listen to this list an…

Sheesh! #1. I'm sick with the flu. #2. My neighbors are moving and I can't avoid their noises. Apologies. Now, when we envision something, we use our 5 senses. We have an overall sense of what this vision would feel like when it's executed. However, I quickly realized that my feelings were fabricated. When I actually saw everything I envisioned, it…

New year, new you! Yes! On Monday, I'm going to start this diet. Next week, I'll work on that project. Next year, I'm really gonna focus on my dream! But why though? The magnetic powers of a fresh start can put us in a state of illusion. Monday, next week, January 1st... is NO different than today. Its only the thought of a clean slate. Welp, maybe…

Ok... before you go on a rant... hear me out. When opportunities arise that we may not want to do, it doesn't necessarily mean we shouldn't do them. Nowadays, we LOVE to claim SELF CARE when it comes to those things we don't want to do and it's IMMEDIATELY justified. Thing is... you MAY be cheating yourselves out of a great growth opportunity by AV…

Stop it. When we create things in our mind and set ourselves on the end goal, we have a tendency to create IDOLS. You idolize dreams and make that dream your savior. You start to become OBSESSED! ...but obsessed with what? RESULTS. You spend all day looking at analytics, views, bank accounts, comments... for a SLIVER of HOPE! ... STOP IT! Watch you…

What do you do when opportunities don't work out? Well... me? I used to RUMINATE in the fact that MY time or MY moment was SUPPOSED to happen... I ended up pouring concrete over those frustrated emotions not knowing my dream was being cemented as well... Dont be like me. Take a listen. Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a han…