What's it like being married when one person is deconstructing and one person isn't? Today James and I both share the hardest parts of this deconstruction journey, how it's affected our marriage and what we’ve learned along the way. Welcome back to the "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" podcast! We hope you enjoy this final episode of the season.…

Today we're talking with Carlos Rodríguez about if our approach to evangelism needs to change. We're also talking about a bunch of hot topics in social justice and about finding Jesus in deconstruction!! SO EXCITED about this episode!! It is so thought-provoking and a different perspective than I ever heard growing up. Welcome back to the "Outgrowi…

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn - Today we're talking with Mike McDonald of The Bible Project about social justice! What does the word "righteous" actually mean, and how is it tied to justice? (This word study changes everything!!) How is bad theology hurting our approach to justice? What is biblical vs s…

James and I both grew up in purity culture and both saved sex for marriage. And today we’re talking about that! We’re debriefing our segment on purity culture + sex, and sharing what we’re learning about a biblical view of sex! Welcome back to the "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" podcast! XOXO, Tiffany HERE ARE TODAY'S QUESTIONS: Q1: What did y…

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn - Today we're talking with Sheila Gregoire about some of the damaging teachings we grew up hearing about "biblical sex" in marriage. She's turning some of those teachings on their heads as she shares what a truly biblical sex life looks like, and how this new perspective ac…

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn - Today we're talking with Kat Harris about masturbation, sexuality, and how to deconstruct purity culture while keeping a biblical approach to sex! SO EXCITED about this one!! Welcome back to the "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" podcast! XOXO, Tiffany HERE ARE OUR QUES…

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn - Deconstructing your faith can be REALLY hard on your mental health. So today we're talking with Brittney Moses, host of The Faith and Mental Wellness Podcast, about mental health during deconstruction, recognizing spiritual manipulation, healing from church hurt, finding …

We're wrapping up our mini series on women's roles! Here's what we each believe + our journey to this point. We'll also take a brief rabbit trail to talk about deconstruction and some of the recent press it's been getting. Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany & James MY INSTAGRAM: @tiffanydawniqb NEED A COUNSELOR? Get 10% off your first month with Faithful Co…

Let's dive into episode 7 of "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl!" Today we're talking with the Rev. Dr. Amy Peeler, an Associate Professor of New Testament at Wheaton College and Associate Rector at St. Mark’s Episcopal Church. Here are the questions we'll be talking about: 1. What did you grow up believing about women's roles in the church and in…

We're wrapping up our mini series on LGBTQ+! Here's what we each believe + our thoughts on some of your comments. Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany & James WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT TODAY: @1:14: Why is this topic the “litmus test” of being a Christian and obeying the Bible? @2:50: Growing up, what was the message you heard about being gay? @4:03: When did …

Let's dive into part 5 of "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl!" Today we're talking with Matthew Vines, author of "God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case for Same Sex Relationships." Here are the questions we'll be talking about: 1. What did you used to believe it meant to honor God with your sexuality? (@4:05) 2. What was the fruit of seeing…

We're wrapping up our mini series on hell + heaven! Here's what we each believe + our thoughts on some of your comments! Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany & James WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT TODAY: What did we grow up believing about hell? What was the fruit of that belief? Why is this conversation even important? What do we think hell is, and why? What was t…

Let's dive into part 2 of our mini series on hell! Today we're talking with Josh Butler, author of "The Skeletons in God's Closet." Here are the questions we'll be talking about: 1. What was your old way of thinking about hell? (@2:16) 2. The first thing we’ll be looking at is fruit. What is the fruit of that belief about hell? (@4:30) 3. What is a…

Today I got to interview pastor and author Steve Daughterty (IG: @stepd0c)! I LOVED getting to talk with him about hell! Here are the questions I asked him: 1. What was your old way of thinking about hell? (@2:57) 2. The first thing we’ll be looking at is fruit. What was the fruit of that belief in your life? (@6:03) 3. What was your aha moment whe…

What do WE mean by deconstruction? How has Tiffany's "deconstruction" affected our marriage? What do we each believe about Scripture? How has that view changed? And do conversations like this promote unity or disunity in church?? Welcome back to Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl (OCG) - Season 2! Can't wait to share this episode (and all of season…

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn This is the final episode of our "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" series. It's all about how this journey to grow deeper into my faith, and to outgrow some of the legalism from my past, has set me free in a whole new way. 🙌 I hope this can encourage you as well! Let's t…

Sometimes we hear damaging messages about emotions in church circles. So let's talk about this: Does God care if you're happy, or only if you're holy? Are some emotions bad enough that we need to hide them? And as always, share your thoughts in the comments below! XOXO, Tiffany PREVIOUS EPISODES: YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7JV…

This was the next big question on my journey. I wanted to understand what the Bible really meant on this issue. But along the way something unexpected happened - I learned to be okay with gray areas, and with not having all the answers. Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany PREVIEW EPISODES: YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7JVVzI5tshcn63oFH2-N…

In Episode 3 I'm asking: "Are we too obsessed with 'sin'? Is inherent sin REALLY our identity? And if we talk about God's love too much, does that water down the gospel?" Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany Dawn WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/ShzfvkA4bdo THIS SERIES: I've been dreaming up a series called "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" for about a y…

In Episode 2 I'm asking: "Is the Bible really as black and white as I once thought? Have I been using the Bible the way it was intended? Is it ALL meant to be literally applied?" Let's talk! XOXO, Tiffany Dawn WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/ciqtjqoEhrw EPISODE 1: GROWING PAINS https://www.buzzsprout.com/1613266/7300993-episode-1-growing-pains-w…

THIS SERIES: I've been dreaming up a series called "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" for about a year now. It's all about my faith journey from growing up in a conservative, predominantly white evangelical homeschool community, and the questions and anxieties and cynicism I started experiencing a few years ago. I want to share the path I feel li…

New flag, new experiences, new sex life. How I am working to make every experience pleasurable. TRIGGER WARNING FOR SEXUAL ASSULT.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

Celibacy, "low sex drive", stressed on not feelings like having sex with your partner? Let's talk about it.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

Yes you should. Here is how to do it safely and enjoy it.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

What is discharge? What is happening when I get wet? What is squirting and can I cum? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

How you feel about the image in the mirror determines how much pleasure you experience during sex.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

Cunnilingus was a taboo subject. I share the #1 fact that helped me get more comfortable and enjoy my squirting.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

What if the sex is bad? Truth is, bad sex is a symptom. "Of what?" you might ask. I answer and give an exercise that will help you experience better sex.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

Join us, Lenore and I as we discuss how what we were taught or not taught about sex kept us from enjoying it for years, even a decade for both of us.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

What is sex and what is the point of it?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

What I learned in the last year plus??? ORGASMS.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

Enjoying sex during marriage after you have been told No all your life.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

I chose to conform to an idea of what a good Christian wife did in the bedroom, not realizing I was shutting off an important part of myself. I share ways I am waving my flag now.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message

My journey to a sex positive life.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goodchristiangirl/message