Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the hea…

Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details.Visit our site here and sign up for our newsletters to keep t…

It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police offi…

Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play. Justin and Trevor made an example of themselves in an …

Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details.Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061.Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/.There will be more news to come in December. Looking forward to seeing you all back.…

The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.โดย Scott (RedspkScott) and Brian (SoupGoblin)

Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.’s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the future holds. We are working on keeping Moonburn going, b…

Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott announces an addition of "interest tracks" for attendees who…

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there.And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty…

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community ide…

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs.Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agree…

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by …

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway.The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who …

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate.If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.g…

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox.Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc…

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene.Both appro…

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all.In oth…

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company.Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m s…

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his …

It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women.In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that w…

Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival).In th…

Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities.If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.claw…

Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities.Also, Scott provides some more det…

This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they’re planning to be a new…

Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California.Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see…

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November o…

Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanki…

Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org)Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him s…

J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene.In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is…

For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community.In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment.In Re…

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy f…

This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.โดย Scott (RedspkScott) and Brian (SoupGoblin)

This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend.Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real…

Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down.(FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.)In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very posi…

Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com.In the Real Dudes…

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat.In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat.In …

Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone and was a wonderful success (with a few things we'll need to hammer out in future retreats--and there WILL be future retreats). Scott and Jaden are joined by Doug, the guy who actually came up with the idea of putting on a new spanking event in Palm Springs, and we talk about how things went and wh…

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony.In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in Februa…

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January.Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT communi…

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportuni…

Jaden is back to join Scott as we announce some big news: The launch of Hot Seat Retreat, a new spanking weekend event planned for March 5-8, 2020 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California.Scott and Jaden go over what prompted them to launch this new event and want to encourage all y'all to come on out.Also: Unfortunately, Camp Red Tails this summ…

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approac…

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two.In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including sp…

Some good news to start. The Los Angeles Moonburn spanking party is back at it's old location at Threshold at the familiar day and time (the first Saturday of the month from noon-4 p.m.) Scott explains the details. Then, Scott is joined by David and Bruce, two of the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend, the all-male weekend spanking gathering held in Aug…

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties.In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinkin…

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn).Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywo…

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Detai…

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking…

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common. There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidn…

Scott's Guest for Episode 17 is Copper, an extremely well-known member of the American scene of dude-spankers. If you don't know him for his role in Man's Hand spanking videos, then you most certainly have seen his spanking artwork.For our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Copper talks about his role in helping the Los Angeles spanking comm…