A longer than usual podcast about a Black mother's search for healing in a system where services are not holistic. Listen as she shares her experience with us. Trigger warnings! Some of this may be uncomfortable listening but she leaves us with gems we ALL can learn from. Find the courage to reach out for support & information. Instagram -@SANCTUAR…

Did you know you need to be a UK homeowner to act as guarantor for you child's rent outside of halls of residents? In Bristol you do! I never knew it was an issue until now. Low income families with bright children going to university be aware. Starting a degree is not the issue but continuing to the end can be the challenge. Links below for more r…

Do you know what a H.EA.R. is? Nor did I. If you have children at university or going to university you should know about this. Found out about it while helping a student. Sharing experiences help us to support our children and our communities better. Warning!! Death by suicide mentioned. Websites mentioned; www.open.ac.uk/study/credit-transfer and…

Sharing my response to an incident a Year 7 mother is facing with her daughter's new secondary school. Nipping things in the bud early is key. Schools keep written records, even an email is a record, so parents need to do the same. What could/should we ask the school to do? Can we use role play at home to help our children practice how they respond…

When it comes to grandparents and our children are parents always between a rock and a hard place? A nan's comment, to her grandchild, led to a lengthy conversation between me and her mum. This podcast is some of my reflections on the struggles, questions and tensions of a complex relationships with our parents in this new grandparent role. How do …

This was the last unpublished podcast for 2022 reflecting on how we might deal with the long journey of parenting. Like others, over the past twenty years, I have had to find my way over and my journey is not finished. I sometimes have felt crushed, in this space, but share some things that might help us to cope a little more on our pathways.…

Christmas season 2022 can be the lonely for so many reasons. Parents, or anyone alone at this time can seem hopeless. Is that true? What might we learn from loneliness? How might we share what's really important? May we find joy in the simple things and gain hope for our tomorrows. Blessed Holidays All!…

A "nitty gritty" final part of our discussion on the topic. Do more Black teachers need to apply to teach in these places? Shouldn't different cultures be in these spaces to show the world is a wider place? Is it all about networking rather than education? Listen as each guest leaves a word of wisdom/advice or encouragement for us all.…

I am joined in this discussion by teachers, support staff, parents and a student talking about a Black experience in Independent/Private Schools. Why did we send our children to boarding schools? Is it the right thing to do? Are independent/private schools better environments for our children? Listen as we talk about pros, cons, racism and much mor…

Parenting is a juggling 'act' for many of us. We often hide our struggles, but parents are speaking more about the impact of this topic, on them and their children, triggering this episode. I am sharing a few examples and five sources where help can be found in the UK. Listen and share for the betterment of our parenting communities as together we …

The controversial use of the N word by a white pupil, at my friends school, triggered a conversation between 2 black mothers. Why is it when our kids are the victims we can find ourselves being called the 'bully'? This and much more in this episode. Akala addressing the N word you tube clip I hold no copyright to this clip and share for reference o…

This podcast is part 2 of 2 and focuses on student finance, student bank accounts and eight tips I found useful when supporting my eldest through her three years of studying at Uni. Now my youngest is off to university. So here we go again. Some wisdom or interference depending on your point of view. Share your questions or stories by reaching out …

This podcast is part 1 of 2. This one focuses on degree and accommodation choices. A parents involvement hopefully sharing some wisdom or interference depending on your point of view. Share your questions or stories by reaching out to parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com

What does Google 'say' about abandonment? How might this show up in our lives and in our parenting? Tongue in cheek maybe, but how many of us turn to Google to search for answers?

A dad: Elliotte, shares how domestic violence impacted his early life and how he is trying to heal for his own mental well being and his family's sake. CALL 01823 334244 Confidential helpline for male victims of domestic abuse and domestic violence https://www.mankind.org.uk; https://www.mensharelisteninggroup.co.uk for 18+ Childline: 0800 1111 Int…

We sometimes think we can do it all. Can we? Should we? Listen as I try to encourage my friends on their new journey of motherhood & parenthood. What is the new strength? Why don't you listen, find out and share?

Eavesdrop on a chat with a parent called 'Star' about safeguarding and bullying focused on some UK schools. You might be shocked by some of the content but different experiences may tend to do that. Have a note pad ready to take note of ideas that might help someone out there. Is there really a difference between schools? What power do we have as p…

A Black mum sharing her thoughts and nine tips around keeping her children safe. Episode recorded June 2021 but still relevant.

A mature mother continues to share surviving her mother's abuse throughout her secondary school life. Social services and the systems in place failed to protect her. She shares how it's never too late to get justice and to heal. Organisations for support are available at www.mind.org.uk including counselling and therapy. Childline 0800 1111 for 18 …

Listen to my guest speaker as she shares her experience of surviving her mother's abuse: mental, physical and spiritual. This is NOT comfortable listening but an experience shared to help others. Organisations and support available from www.mind.org.uk The Samaritans 116123 (free helpline) Childline 08001111 for 18 year olds and under…

A Black British mother speaks on dealing with her sadness over recent months. It's ok to feel sad. We all do but it is a New Year, a fresh start with hope for new things.

An interview from late July 2021 with Dr Janet Goodall speaking about parental engagement with our children's learning. Dr Goodall is an education expert focused on the parent's voice and our inclusion with school when it comes to our children's learning. Gems though-out the interview so take a break and gain some insights. instagram: bevparenttalk…

Back after a break with 10 Tips provided by Dr Dom Thompson et al sent to me by a fellow parent. Also my own tips and recent experience shared for your listening. www.parenttalkwithbev.com instagram: bevparenttalk

Reflections on whether I am a Bad or Good Mum regarding my decisions, and specifically in this podcast, related to giving my children the MMR jab. As parents we will come across this 'label' of being a Bad or Good mum often. I am just sharing how I dealt with mine.

A conversation recorded October 2020. Listen to our conversation covering; not getting into the university of her choice, missing each other and excitements and challenges of branching out! A loving conversation of encouragement. Enjoy.

How do we manage the No's with our children?

Meet, Social entrepreneur, Donelle Grant a 39-year-old mother and the founder of The Brave project community interest company; a non-profit suicide prevention and wellbeing service, for BAME boys and young men. The Brave project creates and promotes culturally appropriate mental health awareness campaigns, that influence change and provide wellbein…

A brief celebration marking the one year birthday of this podcast! A thought became a real idea that is now a reality. What 's new and next? Listen and find out.

Chioma, a parent within the ParentPowerSouthLondon group, joins me to to share some of her passions and some shared family experiences. Raising 2 boys and passionate about parenting. A Youth Practitioner, who runs parenting workshops is passionate about mental health, anti-racism, technology and who is in the final stages of publishing her first bo…

Join Jess Mookherjee and me as we talk about why mental health is a passion of ours especially during this time of Covid-19. We are both a part of South London Covid-19 Mental ill Health Prevention Taskforce because we care about the potential fall out for communities and people who are already struggling. Power to change is one conversation at a t…

Joined by a father, TeddyHoggle or Dom (as I know him) talking 'bout nuff tings. He is getting married in May 2021 but we had some time to talk on rising children with special educational needs, parenting in separation, Anime and black male mental health. A fellow podcaster focused on Anime you can follow him on Spotify and Anchor.fm/teddy-hoggle M…

A mother, Neusa Catoja, speaks about moving from depression to becoming a Transformational Guru. Real gems and insights that have inspired me and others. Hope this podcast inspires you too. Her instagram: Iamneusacatoja My instagram: bevparenttalk Email: parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com

Natasja Visser, a specialist coach & counsellor, joins me in conversation today. When is the right time to have "The Talk" about Sex with our children? Parents you will be encouraged. That is all I am saying. Natasja's website is https://letsexplain.org Her Youtube channel is Let'S Explain by Natasja Visser. Go check it out! instagram@bevparenttalk…

Youth Safety is it still relevant? Listen as my 17 year old gives her views. Feeling lucky we manage to capture it! Do you think its a conversation we should still have with our young people? instagram: @bevparenttalk email: parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com

Joined by some parents talking about the relevance to us and ours. Is it time for a more centralised universal parent support? Is that a Parent Commissioner for London at the GLA to amplify & advocate for parent voices? To find out more about community organising visit Citizensuk.org https://www.citizensuk.org My instagram bevparenttalk Email: pare…

Fantastic and insightful interview with Marsha Powell, a mother, who set up a charity focused on girls! This is worth a listen even if you don't have daughters. www.beleveuk.org A fantastic programmes supporting parents. Charities for boys - Westside Young Leaders Academy https://www.nabss.org.uk/westside-young-leaders-academy SouthSide Young Leade…

Thanks for the workshop:Parent Wellbeing with Forbes Parent Coach - Chioma Fanawop this morning. There was a lot of information and fun activities. Here are 9 tips Chioma highlighted. Try one to help your well-being. Let me know how you get on. instagram: bevparenttalk email: parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com…

Words rarely spoken can become the words we seek to hear. Now that can lead us to all manner of tings! Listen while I share my story around words. Instagram @bevparenttalk Email: parenttalkwithbev@gmail.com

I found a Parenting Together Letter in my downloads so sharing it along with my experience & thoughts on it. If you want a copy of it reach out to parenttalkwithBev@gmail.com

Planned, accident or surprise? Remember children talk and if you tell them they're a mistake their self worth can be affected.

Trying to influence daughters on who they should love never works. This is a message encouraging them to hopefully look beneath the surface. The list comes around 25 minutes in (LOL).

A Black mother suddenly thinking:- how do we ever really deal with being part of a blended family? How do we create spaces where we can have conversations, with our children, about how to relate to external siblings/new 'mums'/new 'dads'? How might we create some balance? All questions any suggestions?…

A Black mother talking about Mental Health, a Listening campaign, Healing conversations between men and women,Parenting in a new way and trying to be real.

This podcast addresses the first hurdle so that you can get positive results. Reach out sharing your experiences, hurdles and successes. Together we can learn.

Allegedly schools have been informed to put all their curriculums online by 9th December 2020? What does this mean? Will schools close again? Should I be worried?

Chit chat about some battles I am currently facing. No advice just wine, chocolate and releasing some funk

A mum shares her recent secondary school interview experience with us. Plus some key questions to ask primary and secondary schools at your interviews, presentations or even Zooms! These questions might help.

A mother's current parenting journey. Positives and challenges during lockdown, and its easing, as she parents her two children during their transitions.

Join us during dinner talk. Had to record what I was hearing.See what you think of what was said regarding her initial day back at school.

Am I brave enough to bring some mental health challenges out of the closet? Clear the room! A series begins as we need space to be real - Warning suicide, depression and anxiety are mentioned today. Samaritans mobile UK hotline: Whatever you're going through, call us free any time, from any phone, on 116 123 or 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (212) 673-3000…