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Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time. This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and ev ...
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This podcast features co-hosts Bil Antoniou, Daniel Krolik and Michael Soulard as they explore the best of the worst in LGBT cinema! Join us each month as we pick a film that we feel could have used some of our expert feedback, and hopefully leave it with some dignity. We'll post the film we are going to watch ahead of the show so you can follow along.
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We're grumpy because we're old. We're gay because we like men. and our dogs are along for the ride. Join Patrick and Tommie and Abigale and Louie as they talk about whatever they want.
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Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and aging, relationships, coming out - nothing is off limits. 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk is the reva ...
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The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast is hosted by the ICF-accredited life coach, workshop facilitator and author Alan Cox. He supports gay men in understanding the emotional, psychological, and practical aspects of transitioning from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship, while fostering clarity, confidence, and alignment with authentic relationship goals. Each episode will investigate an area that surrounds monogamy and is reinforced by practical life coaching techniques. Alan can ...
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Gay Day, hosted by Zac, is a provocative podcast that takes a deep look at different components of a gay man's life.
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May 21, 2025 Episode 142: Sit On A Happy Face
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2:08:38In this week's episode, Patrick and Tommie discuss murder mystery events, meet the Indian Spitz, remember gay activist Frank Kameny on his birthday, say, "Bye, Bye, Charles Strouse," enjoy one last beer with George "Norm" Wendt, Tommy talks everything Gypsy, they salute Clara Barton, learn the obvious about breakfast cereals, get the latest measles…
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Taking PRIDE in our Mental Health – Will Dempsey
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48:30Pride season is supposed to be all glitter, joy, and celebration—but for many, it can bring up waves of anxiety, loneliness, and even depression. So how do you keep your spirit lifted when everyone else seems to be riding rainbows, and you’re just trying to stay afloat? In this powerful and heart-centered episode, we’re joined by the fabulous Will …
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How do the unmet needs of our childhood shape who we are today? And more importantly, how do we learn to meet those needs for ourselves as adults? In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we explore the re-parenting process—a therapeutic model that helps us heal old wounds, develop self-compassion, and rewrite the in…
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BGM has switched servers and we’ve been told that there shouldn’t be anything you need to do, but in case you’re not getting new episodes, here’s the RSS feed link that you should be signed up to from now on: https://anchor.fm/s/104a5157c/podcast/rss Thank you!โดย BA
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The Gay Monogamy Coach. Episode 1. The Monogamy blueprint.
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20:52Send us a text Episode Summary In this inaugural episode, Alan Cox introduces the concept of the "Monogamy Blueprint" - a framework for gay men to consciously design committed relationships that align with their authentic values and desires. Key Topics Explored Who This Podcast Is For Gay men currently in monogamous relationships seeking to strengt…
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Reimagining Mental Health for Gay, CIS and Trans Queer Men – Rahim Thawer
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44:23In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rahim Thawer (he/him)—psychotherapist, educator, and queer Muslim thought leader—joins us to unpack what sets queer men apart from our straight counterparts. From anticipating rejection in dating and navigating body image pressures, to managing our sexual health with a unique blend of hypervigilance and…
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How to Not Lose Yourself in Your Relationships
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53:52In this episode, Matt speaks with therapist and author, Tom Bruett, about how to avoid losing yourself in your relationships. By balancing connection and autonomy in our relationships, we can foster more secure relationships that allow us to maintain our sense of self while allowing our partner to do the same. If you easily lose yourself in your re…
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May 7, 2025 Episode 141: Big Puffy Balls
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1:19:45In this week's episode, Patrick and Tommie growl about recent dog attacks in New York City, go hunting with the Hanover Hound, go to the ballet with Tchaikovsky, go to town with Gary Cooper, say farewell to comic actress Ruth Buzzi and singer Jill Sobule, dance the Can-Can with Cole Porter, producer Steven gives a cooking lesson on roast leg of lam…
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What does it really mean to be Queer and Christian? – Brandan Robertson
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48:02Today the word "Christian" is polarizing. In fact for many it conjures up words like hate, nationalism, evil, fear. WOW...it should not. Then couple that word with Queer, and you might as well be burned at the stake! Let's not do that. Instead, let's invite Queer Christians to the table to embrace their love of goad and faith, and invite others who…
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From Madonna to Mariah, Beyoncé to Barbra— throughout the generations, gay men have been obsessed with divas. But why? In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we’re diving into the deep connection between gay men and our beloved divas, exploring: Who are the divas and what do they have in common? Why divas resonate so deeply with gay men How these…
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April 30, 2025 Episode 140: Cardinal Gibbons
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1:55:48In this week's episode, Patrick and Tommie celebrate the capture of Valerie the runaway dachshund, meet the Gaucho Sheepdog, share a brownie with Alice B. Toklas, say goodbye to drag artist Jiggly Caliente, light a fire for Beltane, ponder how the Supreme Court will rule on the case of the first public religious charter school, review Trump's first…
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The Trouble With Throuples – Jeff Hudson
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40:51Maybe you find yourself bored in your couple. Then you decide playing together with another guy could be fun...and it is. Then you decide that maybe having another guy in the middle (so to speak) on a permanent basis will make your relationship thrive (so to speak). And then it doesn't! Helping us explore this whole concept of the Throuple live, is…
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The women in our lives have influenced us in ways we don’t always recognize, but when we take a step back, their impact is undeniable. In this heartfelt episode, we’re celebrating the uniquely beautiful relationships gay men have with women—from mothers and grandmothers to besties, sisters, and beyond. We’re showing love to all the women who have s…
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April 23, 2025 Episode 139: Disco Pope
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2:14:14In this week's episode, Patrick and Tommie discuss how not to lose one's dog, herd reindeer with the Finnish Lapphund, celebrate the birthdays of the world's greatest playwright and one of the worst U.S. Presidents not named Donald, mark the passing of Pope Francis and review his record on LGBTQIA issues, watch the first YouTube video, rock with th…
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Navigating Breakups and Toxic Relationships as A Gay Man – Lonay Halloum
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42:15Navigating gay relationships isn't easy, but it can be worth it. Yet, for most gay men, that 1st breakup can be a doozy and waht we often don't realized is where that pain is rooted...it's not where you think. Shedding light on how to overcome trauma, is RTT Therapy specialist, Lonay Halloum, who guides us to explore a powerful therapy technique fo…
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Another Australian masterpiece is the focus of a conversation on Bad Gay Movies, but this time Bil has an actual Australian to Ozsplain everything to him. Paul Mizzi, host of the wonderful The Swapcast Podcast, graciously joins the show to talk about Lonesome by Craig Boreham. Listen here: Donate Email: [email protected] ———————– Follow Fa…
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Episode 211: Lonesome with Paul Mizzi
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55:30Another Australian masterpiece is the focus of a conversation on Bad Gay Movies, but this time Bil has an actual Australian to Ozsplain everything to him. Paul Mizzi, host of the wonderful The Swapcast Podcast, graciously joins the show to talk about Lonesome by Craig Boreham. Listen here: Donate Email: [email protected] ———————– Follow Fa…
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People Pleasing, Boundaries, and Fear of Conflict
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52:47Do you find yourself putting other people’s needs ahead of your own? Struggle to set boundaries? Feel responsible for keeping the peace even when it costs you your authenticity? In this episode, gay therapist Michael Pezzullo joins Michael to go deeper into the roots of people pleasing—especially why so many gay men fall into this pattern. We’ll ex…
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Why Staying In Your Hetero Marriage As A Gay Man Can Work – Wayne Scott
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39:44Relationships are messy - gay or straight! So what happens when you have that candid conversation with your spouse, letting her know that your biseuxal, but you mutually decide that for the betterment of each other, your family, and your future to have a non-monogamous open marriage? What could go wrong? What could go right? Today's guest, and debu…
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Many gay men struggle with saying no, setting boundaries, or engaging in difficult conversations due to deep-seated people-pleasing tendencies and fear of conflict. But staying silent often leads to resentment, burnout, or feeling disconnected from your true self. As recovering people-pleasers themselves, Matt and Michael have plenty to share about…
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How To Make Money Your Gay Best Friend (MGBF) – David Lester
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53:22Financial uncertainty in 2025? Don’t panic—David Lester, TV money expert, coach, and author, is here to help! Known as "Your Money Gay Best Friend" (MGBF), David dishes out tough love, smart money moves, and a little fabulous flair to get your finances in check. Key lessons you'll learn: How to build a rock-solid money mindset Smart strategies for …
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All three members of the O.G. BGM crew sit down together in one room for the first time since the 2020 Lockdown, and we couldn’t find a more iconic movie to do it with! Join Bil, Michael and Daniel as they all talk at the same time while hitting the table discussing Longhorns by David […]โดย BA
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All three members of the O.G. BGM crew sit down together in one room for the first time since the 2020 Lockdown, and we couldn’t find a more iconic movie to do it with! Join Bil, Michael and Daniel as they all talk at the same time while hitting the table discussing Longhorns by David […]โดย BA
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Eroticizing Shame – Turning Pain Into Pleasure
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53:51In this episode, Matt speaks with Psychotherapist, Merle Yost, about how shame may influence sexual desire and arousal by eroticizing shame as a way of coping with it. Merle shares his story about being sexually molested by his father and the impact this had on his sexual development. Join us for this interesting topic that is often not talked abou…
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From Casual to Committed. Chapter 9: Planning for the future.
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31:41Send us a text Welcome to ‘Empowering Gay Men the Podcast’. This is the fifth episode that marks a change from the usual format and indeed a huge move from the focus pf my work. I became an ICF-accredited Life Coach and CBT Practitioner with the aim of working with just gay men and that is what I did. I specialised in tackling the major issues that…
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April 2, 2025 Episode 138: Ask Your Doctor For Beaujolais Nouveau
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1:53:06In this week's episode, Tommie suffers through the drama of children's theatre, he and Patrick find out the meaning of the word "cocker," ask Marvin Gaye what's going on, say goodbye to Richard Chamberlain and Val Kilmer, watch Debbie Reynolds play a singing nun, celebrate the Fleetwood Mac album Rumours, Tommie walks away from his peanut butter an…
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Discovering The Connection to My Inner Erotic Self – Rick Clemons
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21:40Connection. We all yearn for it in different ways - personally, professionally, and erotically. Plus, connection in so many other ways. Yet what happened for me over a 4-day Connect Retreat with Court Vox - Certified Intimacy and Sex coach, was surprising, intriguing, scary, exiting, and led me places I never would have imagined - in all areas of m…
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Becoming a Strong Communicator
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59:58Communication is at the heart of every relationship—whether it’s with friends, partners, colleagues, or even yourself. But what does it actually mean to be a strong communicator? In this episode, we’re diving into the key skills that make conversations more effective, engaging, and authentic. Join us as we discuss: What makes a strong communicator?…
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From Casual to Committed. Chapter 7: Building a Solid Foundation.
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28:21Send us a text Welcome to ‘Empowering Gay Men the Podcast’. This is the fourth episode that marks a change from the usual format and indeed a huge move from the focus pf my work. I became an ICF-accredited Life Coach and CBT Practitioner with the aim of working with just gay men and that is what I did. I specialised in tackling the major issues tha…
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From Casual to Committed. Chapter 5. Communication skills for connection.
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28:03Send us a text Welcome to ‘Empowering Gay Men the Podcast’. This is the second episode that marks a change from the usual format and indeed a huge move from the focus pf my work. I became an ICF-accredited Life Coach and CBT Practitioner with the aim of working with just gay men and that is what I did. I specialised in tackling the major issues tha…
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From Casual to Committed. Chapter 3. The mindset shift.
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19:39Send us a text Welcome to ‘Empowering Gay Men the Podcast’. This is the second episode that marks a change from the usual format and indeed a huge move from the focus pf my work. I became an ICF-accredited Life Coach and CBT Practitioner with the aim of working with just gay men and that is what I did. I specialised in tackling the major issues tha…
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How to step into the color of your life - Corey Powell
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34:58COVID changed everything—our priorities, our beliefs, and the way we see ourselves. For celebrity hair colorist Corey Powell, it sparked a deeper calling: to help others in the LGBTQ+ community break free from the stories holding them back. After years of coaching clients from his salon chair, Corey took the leap to become a life coach, guiding the…
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Bil was in Australia for 10 minutes a decade ago, so naturally he brings his expertise to bear on the details of the film he is discussing with Michael, who turns out to be a big fan of it! Join them as they discuss Goran Stolevski’s Of An Age. Listen here: Donate Email: [email protected] ———————– Follow […]…
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Bil was in Australia for 10 minutes a decade ago, so naturally he brings his expertise to bear on the details of the film he is discussing with Michael, who turns out to be a big fan of it! Join them as they discuss Goran Stolevski’s Of An Age. Listen here: Donate Email: [email protected] ———————– Follow […]…
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From Casual to Committed. Chapter 1: Understanding your relationship goals.
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13:20Send us a text Welcome to ‘Empowering Gay Men the Podcast’. Today marks a change from the usual format and indeed a huge move from the focus pf my work. I became an ICF-accredited Life Coach and CBT Practitioner with the aim of working with just gay men and that is what I did. I specialised in tackling the major issues that affect gay men, particul…
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DIY Sex Education for Gay Men
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47:24They didn’t teach us about gay sex in school… so we had to teach ourselves. From porn to awkward trial-and-error hookups, most of us pieced together our own “education”—for better or worse. In this episode, Michael is joined by porn star turned sex educator, Patrick Marano, to talk about the sex ed we should have had, how we’ve had to create it for…
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Embracing aging with grace.
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23:48Send us a text Welcome to the podcast ‘Empowering Gay Men’ hosted by ICF-accredited Life Coach, Alan Cox. This podcast is a recording of the audiobook ‘Proud Declarations. Daily Affirmations for Gay Men’ my latest book. Episode 9: Embracing aging with grace. Affirmations for embracing change. Celebrating life's milestones. Finding joy in your journ…
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March 19, 2025 Episode 137: The Horrors Persist, But So Do I
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1:34:15In this week's episode, Patrick and Tommie review the American Kennel Club's list of the most popular dogs, meet the Danish Spitz, pass the tanning butter to late B-52's guitarist Ricky Wilson, pay tribute to the film Victoria/Victoria and Broadway musical Avenue Q, enjoy some chocolate caramel and stuffed quail in the backyard, explore the history…
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Creating your affirmation manifesto.
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22:36Send us a text Welcome to the podcast ‘Empowering Gay Men’ hosted by ICF-accredited Life Coach, Alan Cox. This podcast is a recording of the audiobook: ‘Proud Declarations. Daily Affirmations for Gay Men’ my latest book. This episode is a recording of Chapter ten. Episode 10: Creating your affirmation manifesto. Crafting your personal affirmations.…
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Level Up Your Dating Profile
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54:28Is your dating profile truly showing the best version of you? In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we're diving into the do's and don'ts of crafting a profile that is aligned with what you’re truly looking for. On the apps, your profile is the first impression that counts so whether you're looking for love, fun, or meaningful connections, it ma…
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Affirmations for mental well-being.
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21:46Send us a text This podcast is a recording of the audiobook: ‘Proud Declarations. Daily Affirmations for Gay Men’ my latest book. This episode is a recording of Chapter eight. Episode 8: Affirmations for mental well-being. Recognizing the importance of mental health. Affirmations for anxiety and depression. Cultivating mindfulness through affirmati…
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Navigating career and success.
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18:52Send us a text Welcome to the podcast ‘Empowering Gay Men’ hosted by ICF-accredited Life Coach, Alan Cox. This podcast is a recording of the audiobook: ‘Proud Declarations. Daily Affirmations for Gay Men’ my latest book. This episode is a recording of Chapter seven. Episode 7: Navigating career and success. Affirmations for professional growth. Ove…
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Relationships and affirmations.
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18:16Send us a text Welcome to the podcast ‘Empowering Gay Men’ hosted by ICF-accredited Life Coach, Alan Cox. This podcast is a recording of the audiobook: ‘Proud Declarations. Daily Affirmations for Gay Men’ my latest book. This episode is a recording of Chapter six. Episode 6: Relationships and affirmations. Affirming healthy partnerships. Setting bo…
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The Law of Zero For Gay Men – Chad Michael Hardy
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47:38Life feeling a little too much lately? You’re not alone. But what if you could hit reset and find your calm—no matter what’s happening around you? Even if that means you relinquish your family upbringing, get ex-communicated from your church, and finally start living your truth as a gay man, as you always meant to be. Enter Chad Michael Hardy, auth…
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Safe Ways To Travel and See The Planet as a Gay Man – Lindsey Danis
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43:42We all love a good adventure, but let’s be real—traveling as a gay man isn’t just about picking a destination; it’s about finding places where you can truly feel safe, seen, and celebrated. So, where in the world can you be your fabulous, free self without worry? This week, I’m joined by LGBTQ+ travel expert & Queer Adventurers founder, who’s here …
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