Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code. Resources: Www.captivatingcourts ...
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5 Parts to Court for Commitment S5E26
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If you’re feeling lost with where to start, how to actually court for commitment, courting a man who won’t commit, or can’t figure out why you’re always so close to being in the relationship you desire but conversations around commitment always go left, and you can’t figure out why…You’ll want to pay close attention to this episode.The path to cour…
Do you have a fear your relationship options are limited so you'll be single forever? If you've had those thoughts or want to run far away from similar thoughts, this is the episode for you. Thinking your options are limited is exactly what limits your relationship options and creates the feeling of hopelessness and pressure during the dating & cou…
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Where to Meet a Man Isn’t Blocking You from Marriage S5E24
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Do you believe you haven't met your partner because you just don't know where to meet a man? If so, this episode is for you. Many women think that they're limited to finding a partner because they just don't know where to meet a partner, but that's not true. The truth is, there are other things that's causing you to not meet your partner, and until…
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Low Value Mindset Kills Attraction Fast S5E23
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There are 3 high value mindsets that make you more attractive to the types of men you desire. However, there are also 3 main low value mindsets that will sabotage your love life. And if you have any of these mindsets you'll find yourself having a lot of noise in your head when it comes to courtship and dating. This noise will make your question you…
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What is High Value Courtship? S5E23
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So often as women, we mistake high value relationships with materials or high earning men. And this can cause a ton of confusion and low value dating & courtship experiences. You may also believe that courting high value as a woman is about playing games, making the man chase you, or making the man jump through hurdles to prove he’s “the one.” On t…
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BTS Trust & Intentions S5E22
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On today's episode we're sharing with you a clip from a Monday Coffee chat about trust & intentions from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday Zara goes live in the private coaching community for Q&A and in depth coaching on a particular topic. This episode is from a livestream on trust, pure relationship intentions, and fem…
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How to Break the Loop of Distrust S5E21
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You’ve been making efforts to get your love life on the right track and that’s not easy, especially if you struggle with trusting the courtship process and feeling confident you can attract better relationships. So I want to share with you today key steps to increase trust that I share with the ladies of the Captivating Courtship Code program, so y…
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Trust Again After Disappointment S5E20
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Have you ever opened your heart to a courtship that eventually led to a disappointing breakup?We’ve all been there. In fact, it’s really hard to feel confident to trust again after disappointment and believing your guy was truly the right one for you…Want to know what I’ve learned?Oftentimes positive courtship experiences don’t fall off because a m…
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Ignite Trust & End Scarcity Mindset S5E19
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When you’ve been through heartbreak, disappointment or trauma, no matter how big or small, it’s hard to trust yourself…let alone trust others. In Captivating Courtship Code we give you the tools you need to rebuild your trust muscles and get out of a scarcity mindset.Getting out of love survival mode and stepping into love abundance is required for…
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Married in 6 months…here’s what she did: Captivating Testimonial S5E18
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On today's episode we have a chat with one woman from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program who turned her love life around, and went from overthinking and no real options for marriage to married within 6 months of starting coaching. You're going to learn exactly how she did it and why having a blueprint and real support in your love life…
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Steps to Attract Your Partner S5E17
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Are you ready to stop questioning if you’ll ever find the one? What if you could do it in 6 simple steps and use a process that has been proven to help women just like you attract their partner and change their love life within months? And what if you could do it without all the guesswork and heartbreak? In today's episode I share with you the 6 st…
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Are you too accomplished to attract a partner? S5E16
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If you’ve ever felt like your career, ambition, intellect or independence makes you the type of woman men look over, I want to offer you consider this: Everyday I coach women who are the total package, beauty and brains. And even if you don’t believe that you’re the smartest or the prettiest woman in the world…the man who connects with your heart a…
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Detox from Ex & Attract Your Husband Captivating Testimonial S5E15
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On today's episode we have an intimate conversation with a member of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program about her journey from ex to next. She details her painful breakup and past toxic relationship, along with the inner and actionable changes she had to make to attract her husband within months of getting started with coaching. Are yo…
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Tip: Attract Commitment Ready Men Online & Offline Effortlessly S5E14
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Are you a busy woman who feels clueless about how to meet compatible men who actually want to commit to marriage? Maybe you’ve already tried online dating and haven’t had any luck? Two mistakes many women make is taking a lot of the same efforts to meet men that’s not working…and not knowing how to meet and qualify lots of commitment ready men WHIL…
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Does Conflict ACTUALLY Drive Men Away? S5E13
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Have you ever experienced conflict during courtship that stirred up the fear of being ghosted and never hearing from your guy again? Now you’re feeling super anxious, checking your phone hoping he’ll text back, and deep down inside you know your emotional reactions may have been a little too much? And then you think…every time you get close to men …
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Signs & Breaking Generational Relationships Wounds S5E12
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This is a very vulnerable episode for me. There have been a lot of things occurring in the past 24 hours that inspired today's episode. Are you a spiritual woman who's had the burden of having to break generational patterns and make new and different changes for your family tree? If so, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm sharing some pers…
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Be a Highly Desirable Career Ambitious Woman S5E12
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Are you a career ambitious woman who worries your success will make you less attractive and desirable to the types of men you want to marry? Have you had men tell you your past or your love journey makes you unworthy of the partner you'd want? If so, this episode breaks down the truth and what you need to know about being an ambitious woman and fin…
March kicks off the first Captivating Month of the year, our group coaching enrollment period. During this month I'm going to share lots of information on how you can Captivate Courtship, Testimonial case studies, and lots if information on the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program. Have Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivati…
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Finding Love After Divorce S5E10
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Have you recently gone through a breakup or divorce and have a hard time believing that you're going to be able to find love again? You're not alone. Many women share this experience and avoid taking a chance on love again out of fear of being hurt, or finding out they are no longer desirable. That's how one of my clients thought prior to working w…
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Feeling clueless about where to meet compatible men? S5E9
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Have you ever tried online dating or asking friends to introduce you to men and feeling like nothing is helping you meet compatible, quality men? Now you’re feeling clueless about what to do or where to start meeting great guys, so you avoid the entire process? Maybe you’re burnt out from trying to figure why didn’t the guy who seemed interested ca…
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The best way to attract your match in 90 days S5E8
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When I owned a matchmaking service I used to believe where to find a partner was the biggest challenge singles faced. But, I quickly realized there were key things women were overlooking and didn’t know how to identify that kept them single or wasting time way longer than they had to be. Yes, you do need to know the best actionable places to meet m…
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Let’s Break Your Relationship Patterns S5E7
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Have your relationship patterns been keeping you in a loop of attracting the same men and courtship experiences? What if I told you my clients are able to drastically improve the quality of their love life by breaking their relationship patterns, get engaged or even married within a year of working with me? There are some key things you can shift i…
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Why Your Friend's Advice Won’t Work! Here’s Why S5E6
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If you’re used to being the strong friend and the one everyone leans on for advice, you may feel really isolated when it comes to your love life. You may turn to your friends for advice on where to meet someone, why your ex won’t commit, or what you may need to do differently but their answers are vague, negative, or just plain unhelpful.On today’s…
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Want Marriage but Fear Making a Mistake? S5E5
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Have you ever met a man and after one conversation you’re planning the wedding, baby names, and your life together in your head? And then you experience a major shift in the developing relationship. Suddenly, he’s no longer pursuing you and appears to have lost interest. You then become even more anxious and do anything you can to keep his attentio…
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How to Stop Attracting the Same Experiences S5E4
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When I first started matchmaking I was naive to the psychology of relationships and why people continued to create the same experiences over and over again. No matter the degree, income bracket, or desire for marriage I’d see the same behaviors that caused clients to sabotage their own happiness.After my 5th year of working in the industry, one day…
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Looking for Red Flags Is the Wrong Way to Attract Quality Men S5E3
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Want to know a secret most relationship coaches won’t tell you? Looking for Red Flags is the WRONG way to Attract Quality Men. You need to shift your focus away from Red Flags because it’s making you anxious, judgemental, and taking you out of your feminine energy. You’re so focused on trying to see if a man is Bad for you that you’re not paying at…
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3 Shifts to Attract Quality Men without Losing Your Power S5E2
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Believing being a feminine woman means shrinking yourself, people pleasing, or being inauthentic so you can be seen as wife worthy is the complete opposite of being feminine and causes low value attraction, relationship anxiety, and for some high achieving women, you’ll avoid meeting men altogether out of fear of rejection and not being “submissive…
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Can Career Women Attract Masculine Men? S5E1
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If you’re a high achieving woman who wants to attract a masculine man without shrinking or feeling unworthy, this is for you! First, I want you to know and understand that masculine & feminine energy exists in both sexes, so being a feminine woman is already within you. Right now, you just feel disconnected from it. So If you want to stop feeling d…
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We're Back! Happy New Year!
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Missed us? Courtship Code Podcast is BACK! And we've got some super exciting news for the New Year. Here's everything you can look forward to and so much more.
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Is the Captivating Courtship Code REALLY the Best Way to Attract Commitment? S4E62
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We’ve been flooded with lots of questions about the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program, especially wanting to know, what’s inside? So here’s all the program details. We want you to have as much information as you need to feel good about moving your love life forward and finally taking a step in a new direction. Captivating Courtship …
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From Avoiding love to Engaged in less than a year S4E61
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Do you run the other way or feel super anxious when it's time to take action in your love life? If you can relate, listen to Sumaya share her story of going from avoiding and anxious with relationships to getting engaged in less than a year. This quick episode comes from our Case Study Tuesdays every Tuesday on Instagram. Enrollment is Closing 12/2…
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A Proven Blueprint is Better than Feeling Clueless about Courtship S4E60
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You’ve been trying to do this love thing for quite some time, and all of the almost-kinda relationships just haven’t been as fulfilling as you may have hoped. When you’ve been in a loop of hot/cold relationships, non-committed connections, or spending more time thinking about relationships than actually having relationships. The fear of wasting all…
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Captivate Courtship after 40 & Break Adapter Prototype
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On this special episode we share with you a testimonial from a Captivating Courtship Code alumni who shares her experience with coaching and why joining the program is so much more than learning how to get a man. We chat about rediscovering yourself, learning to Captivate Courtship after 40, healing work and the benefits of having community to help…
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Why some Smart Successful Women Make the Worst Dating & Courtship Mistakes S4E58
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If you could avoid this courtship pitfalls and attract a loving relationship sooner, would you?Everyday at Captivating Courtship we work with smart, successful, powerhouse women who are ready to meet the love of their life. They’re done with feeling relationship anxiety and uncertain about how to attract the right man, and even though they may have…
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Is Being Smart & Ambitious REALLY Your Love Block? S4E57
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Have you ever built a relationship with a man who appears to be exactly the kind of man who would be a perfect fit for you, and he just won’t commit? You two have a connection. Maybe even common education or ambitions...so the relationship SHOULD work, right? He seems really invested, values your intelligence and communication, yet, he just won’t m…
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RG #5: How to Manifest Your Relationship Goals with a Match Game Plan S4E56
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What does it mean to manifest your relationship goals and does it really work? One special part of making your relationship goals come to life is spirituality and energetics of love and attraction. Knowing how to trust your intuition and align with the right partner and relationship for you makes courtship more enjoyable and speeds up the process o…
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RG #4: Create Connection on a Deeper Level S4E55
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If you’re like many ambitious, high achieving women you probably struggle with your feminine energy and feeling fully emotionally connected. This can appear as being slightly emotionally unavailable, uncertain about how you truly feel when engaging with men, or a fear around being vulnerable, seen and heard. While this disconnect may have helped yo…
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RG #3: Bye Bye Situationship S4E54
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When you’re a woman who’s been holding onto a non-committal or emotionally unavailable man, you can feel like you’re in a hopeless cycle of attracting the wrong kinds of men and relationships with no possibility of having the type of relationship you actually desire. Especially when you feel addicted to the man and the pain of breaking away seems l…
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RG #2: Go from Courtship Clueless to Captivating Clarity S4E53
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When you’re a woman who’s never seen a happy healthy relationship, lack a circle of girlfriends who are happy with their love lives, or simply feel clueless about what steps to make or how to attract the right man for you dating & courtship can feel extremely stressful and cause you to overthink your way into feeling discouraged. Clarity is what st…
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RG #1: 6 Relationship Goals for the New Year S4E52
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If you’re a woman who’s ready to set the new year on fire and finally take steps to commit to being committed, this podcast series is for you.For the rest of the year we’re focusing on Relationship goals, what they are and how to make them come to life. So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get serious about your dream relationship.On today’s episode,…
When you’re communicating with a man do you lean more on intimacy or commands in order to get what you want? For some women, who aren’t avoiders, manipulation, demands, and over-explaining is their go-to tool to make a man hear their point of view. Only this way of communicating typically backfires and causes him to go cold, pull away, or place wal…
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Game Plan: Meet More Compatible Men S4E51
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Are you ready to meet more men in less time? In this special segment of the Courtship Code Podcast, we discuss a match game plan hack to help you increase your pool of options so you can get clear and intentional about meeting your Mr. Right, and attracting your dream relationship sooner.So often single women wait and avoid taking the best steps wi…
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Become a Queen of Courtship S4E50
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If you’re ready to become a queen of courtship this is the episode for you. You opportunity to enroll in the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program during our Captivating Month, ends tonight. Have you been curious about what happens when you decide to captivate courtship and finally create your match game plan? What about the path to success a…
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Get the Relationship You Actually Want S4E49
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It’s time to have a real conversation about getting the relationship you actually want. Too often, women settle for relationships they don’t desire because deep down inside they don’t believe they can actually have it. They operate on love survival mode, and allow themselves to create stories that are rooted in a lack of trust, fear, disbelief, and…
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Healing Feminine Energy & Manifesting Partnership w/Odessa Thornhill S4E49
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Many women underestimate the power and value of their feminine energy, and exactly how special you are as womb carriers. You have the magic to move mountains, if you learn to work with your body and stop fighting against it. On today's episode, womb health specialist, coach and doula, Odessa Thornhill dives deep into the energy and power women hold…
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3 Painful Lessons Your Mother Didn't Teach You About Courtship & Dating S4E48
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Are you feeling clueless about how to navigate courtship and attracting compatible men and wondering if your mother would've given you more insight on how to date & court for commitment you would be in a better place in your love life? This is a common concern many women face when it comes to their love life, and feeling stuck and confused about wh…
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How to Attract Emotionally Available Men S4E47
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One common complaint many smart, successful, go-getting women have is that they’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. And if you can relate, there may be something you’re doing that’s causing you to commonly attract this kind of man, over and over again.Here’s the thing, you can change this if you make this one shift in how you engage with men…
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Cuffing Season Pre-Kickoff S4E46
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Did you know cuffing season is a real thing? All humans desire connection and companionship and around this time of the year you may start feeling the itch to meet your Mr. Right.That’s a good thing! That means it’s time to get your head in the dating & courtship game and learn the mindsets of a Captivating Queen so you can get cuffed this fall and…
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Breakup with Your Type in 3 hours S4E45
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Do you find yourself making the same relationship mistakes and attracting the same kinds of men and feeling clueless about what to do about it? If you’ve been in a loop of painful experiences and a frustrating past with men, it’s time to make the commitment to do something different.But sometimes doing something different can feel heavy and you may…
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More Love & Less Pain...here’s how S4E44
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No woman wants to feel unlovable or undesirable. If you’re currently feeling like love just doesn’t live in your home anymore, or maybe even never at all, you need to know you can absolutely have more love and less pain in your love life if you’re intentional and take the steps I’m going to share with you today.What if you could know exactly what t…