Its not your fault!

I Speak Life with Latoya JT

I should have, why didn’t I, maybe if I did this wouldn’t have happened, I am such a klutz, why am I like this? Have you ever asked yourself these questions at some point in your life? It usually after a traumatic event or at a moment of loss. In your mind you feel that there is something you could’ve done differently to get a different outcome.

I watched a movie the other night and there was a young man who was a genius. He could solve any mathematical problem without even breaking a sweat. He had the potential to make millions, yet he was a jailbird, a drunk and a bum. Someone would look at him and say ‘what a waste’. What happened to cause him to be in a place where he is afraid of launching out?

Trauma.

He was constantly beaten by someone who was supposed to love him and it messed with his psyche. He felt that if he didn’t love anything or anyone then there would be no way that he could lose it. But at the same time this young man was just throwing away his life. He was stuck in his past and no amount of offers for a better job or the love of a woman could change that. He had to get to the point where he realized that what happened to him was not his fault.

No one asks for trauma in their lives. No one wakes up wishing that a loved one would meet in an accident and die. No one requests for a strange man to come into their homes a rapes them repeatedly for a number of years. No one requested for their partner to walk out and leave them in debt and leave the kids without a mother or a father. But these things happen.

It’s not your fault. You did not ask for this. No matter how you analyze and rethink the event, the truth is: it is not your fault. Please look into yourself and realize that you have been blaming yourself for something that you had no control over. You have been hating yourself and repeatedly berating yourself for not being stronger, smarter, and faster for so many years.

You need to release yourself from the pain of blaming for so many years. Remove the defense mechanism that you have erected to keep people from caring about you. Not everyone is in your life to hurt you and not everyone is going to leave you. I declare that you will allow the Lord to reach into your soul and cause the healing that you need to begin. Accept what has happened, analyze what took place but after that forgive yourself. You were the victim not the aggressor. Ask the Lord to help you to forgive the person that has hurt you and release them from your system.

There are many waiting on you for the genus that you are. There are many who need the expertise that you have. There are those who are waiting for you to love them back. There are those who are waiting to give you that business opportunity or offer you that job. But you have to first see that you are worth something. You were created by God for greatness and to be an asset in the earth.

It was not your fault…quit blaming yourself…allow yourself the time to be healed so that you can begin to fulfill your purpose.

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